I enjoy the man for who he is (before sex), the sexual intimacy is icing on the cake.
Enjoying the person, taking in their smile, eyes, laughter, enjoying the sound of their voice and feeling their kisses, long before the clothes come off and sex is enjoyed. Is to me what makes a man even more beautiful and desirable in my eyes. It's a different type of foreplay that brings out the passion in us both. It makes our moments together, simply beautiful.
If it was purely just about sex. Then there would be no real passion, nor real thrill. No fond memories to embrace after the date and no real smiles left within.
So my main goal when I'm with a lover, is to enjoy HIM for who he is and allow the sex to heighten the thrill that's already began when he walked through the door.
That's just me. But I realize I'm just woman and my views are different than most.
is you main goal to have a great time sexually? or enjoy the company of an intriguing woman or possibility both? For me the sexual aspectt is better if there is a connection or we click and to me that is what makes my dates better and those are the ones I see repeatedly. Don't get me wrong I enjoy hot passionate encounter but find it is better with an attraction on a different level...
Originally Posted by Irish Vixen