To clarify...if you see a new provider (maybe she's sorta under the radar or say a lower-volume fbsm massage girl), is there an advantage/disadvantage to letting them know you know something about them?
Another thing it would do is give them an idea (though not specifically) what your expectations are.
And when I say mention them, I mean very generally, like "I saw some reviews and...you're what I'm looking for..." Not "Hey, I see you're CIM-NQNS! Awesome!"
I've never done it, but then I've only recently started seeing some indies. And, the more I think about it, the more I can see both sides—saying something vs not saying something. Guys or gals, any opinions would be appreciated.