How do men visualize the PERFECT provider?

Oh for sure. Obviously, I try to match up my wants and needs with what my research shows the provider might provide. But yes, the anticipation is huge for me. In fact, I have slowly learned that scheduling a visit a day or two in advance only heightens the experience for me. Only problem is that some providers only take same-day appointments. The attributes that I look for obviously include appearance, but that can be secondary to other traits like attitude and the provider also wanting to enjoy our time together. If the provider is not going to either "get into it" also, or at least be very, very good at faking it, I probably won't have that great a time.

As far as physical attributes desired, that's pretty wide ranging for me. I like a woman with some meat on her bones. I hate skinny and not too crazy about BWW. Somewhere in between for me. Even chunky is fine. Big boobs is a plus, but not mandatory. Responsive breasts are also a turn-on. Hygiene is also important. Going slow and slowing building to a climax is important. I also love tan lines. Now I am showing my age, but the old Playboys back in the day almost always had a model or two with a nice tan, but white boobs. But I realize every guy is different. So thank God, not all women look the same. LOL.

There are definitely thoughts, but due to discretion, typically any extra special requests may be a bit much for the introductory session. When researching, a potential client may be specifically looking for an activity, an attitude, a look, etc.

To share a bit about expectation setting, when too much thought goes into how a session should go, any fantasy can be ruined by too much pressure, too much scripting, etc.

I tend to allowing for a wide margin of error while keeping in mind that any Verified Provider I'm looking into knows from experience that pleasure is generally an easy enough result.

If there are particulars, discussion in advance of the session assists with fulfilling those requests, but I assert the majority should typically be left for a repeat visit.

Attitude first and foremost. Then attributes such as body, face, etc. Obviously skills, but attitude is the absolute make or break. I lean towards slim to athletic types, 30+ in age, but attitude can overcome all. I've seen all body types based on research of their reviews. I research heavily before leaping so I usually pretty well know what to expect. I've never been disappointed with an eccie lady. Obviously some are more favorable than others, but all have gone well.

When I see the providers pics, I look at 2 things. Is her face kissable, and does her ass look sweet enough to taste.

How do men visualize the PERFECT provider?

Originally Posted by sxyveronica

Naked.

Perfect!!!

I would say for me it is all about attitude. Is she going to be the perfect or ideal date? Probably not. But with research you can get as close as you can. I love redheads. So with a little research I have come up with one lady in this area that seems to fit. Trying to schedule with Kay now. But body type is not always what makes a difference. Menu is a deal breaker.

Oh and yes. There is always the fantasy of how you hope that the visit will go. Is it going to be just a visit or is it going to be WOW.

Pretty face, healthy figure, clean, smells good, nice and fun, likes sex. Reasonably priced. Good reliable business person. TRUE gfe....especially a good kisser. No or minimal tats.. Hair down there.

Enthusiasm. It's the best customer service.

Nice Post!! I have always wondered about this

How do men visualize the PERFECT provider? Originally Posted by sxyveronica

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Attitude, personality, when her definition of GFE coincides with mine... etc, etc....

When I research, the first thing I do is look at pictures. Updated pictures are a huge turn on because it truly reveals who I will see when I walk in the door. I lean towards ladies that aren't afraid to post a selfie in addition to any professional photos. Preferably an image that shows off her assets and playground. After all, what are we guys looking for?

If I like what I see and I can visualize me with this gal, I move to reviews, perhaps a PM or 2 to the reviewers...

I prefer woman who screen. Makes me feel safer and that they care about the safety required to make this hobby work...

I always visualize a safe clean incall. I hate pulling up to some 1-2 star hotel in a sketchy part of town wondering if my car will be there when I'm done. If I feel that way I leave...

Then I visualize a woman who is clean and showered and pays attention to hygiene like I do...

Tick those boxes and you have a regular, assuming the time is mostly what I want out of that time and companionship...

It is said that great sex begins at breakfast. This can mean many things. In this context I believe it means I am in preparation at first light and in anticipation of a great and exciting evening. Most often PM's or emails have been exchanged so as to be familiar. I am not a phone person so I do not communicate that way unless it is required. As I approach her room I am a little nervous. I straighten myself and offer a light knock on the door. I think of when I was a young buck and how things were so different. This helps me put on a little smile. She opens the door slightly and glances up at me. She opens the door further and I enter. I close the door quietly behind me. She is wearing a summer dress and impractical high heels that cause her legs to go on even longer. She is still smiling and says hello. Her left hand cups the back of my head and I can feel her fingers through my hair. She lightly draws me to her warm lips. My right hand holds her by her tight waist and my little finger rests on the bump of her ass. My dick awakens and gets hard. My right hand slides up her back to softly press her closer. I can smell her perfume. She smells clean. Her hair drapes my arm.
She does not break the kiss but follows my lead when I do and her eyes meet mine when we part.


She takes my coat and hangs it for me. She comes close and slowly undoes my belt while looking at me. Her room is darkened save for a candle here or there.

This is why I think it is important for the earlier communication. Dose he want a porn star? A whore? A GFE or the frost of love? As was stated before. Enthusiasm is the key. But what does he want?
Do you want to be a one dementional coutesean?
I believe it was The Pink Pussycat lounge in LA that brought us the best young tallent back in the day. School as it were.

You can make your fortune if you keep your head about you.
Trouble is it seems the clientell these days want nothing more than a bump and grind.
Unless you use the system to your advantage.
This is a very good question in the right direction.