Big Guys. Yes, No, Maybe?

Ladies,

What is the general provider rule on big guys?

Would a provider like to be told before hand?

Would you refuse "service" if you show up or he shows up and is too big for your liking?

Is there any thing that is off limits when spending time the a larger man?

I would really like to know.
It might help if we knew...

1.) Are you referring to your body type?

2.) Are you referring to the size of your "man-hood" ?
Body type.
Some women have weight restrictions....so if you are a bigger/taller guy, it might be worth while to mention this part during the screening process.

Of course if you are morbidly obese, there are going to be some things/positions that are not going to be physically possible or comfortable for either party. We (the provider) can't fix that part.

It's always a mystery (for the women) what's on the other side of the door. Most of the time guys have seen our pics and reviews and have a hint at what they are in for. It's nice if you show us the courtesy and give us a description of yourself in advance.

Bottom line, do YOUR homework, be open and honest and you should be able to find a compatible lady.
I dont have a weight restriction but this a common practice among providers. We not be able to do certain positions but if the provider truly likes what she does she will make sure that you both enjoy your time.

Just be honest with any lady that you chose to see. Plus its cuddle season!!!
Hun your hight, weight, color or body type is fine with me as long as you are clean and a gentleman.
I am 500 lbs of pure lobe... Ladies would you wash me before the date?

( don't keep the remote if you find it, been looking for it for a while now)
mrredcat43's Avatar
What do you classify as a big guy? Starting weight
Joni HappyMassage's Avatar
I personally enjoy treating big guys to a fun time.
But I have heard some other ladies don't. So.... please do mention it so you spend your time and hobby resources well.
Duthgar1976's Avatar
350 pounds of morbid obesity and 4 inches of disappointment and so far i have only had 1 provider say no in the last 2+ years i been here. just be up front.
DallasRain's Avatar
I like chubby men...I always say "I need a chubby hubby for my chunky monkey"...lol
cabletex7's Avatar
Provider ads listing availability of hospital hoists or slings are not too far behind. Upcharge of course.


  • anita
  • 11-16-2016, 02:59 AM
Even though it happens, I don't expect guys here to be extremely fit. So your weight doesn't matter. You just have to be clean and pleasant to be around. As mentioned above some things will be impossible to do but I always try my best and smile have fun doing so.
mmcqtx's Avatar
I am closing in on 50 providers seen (counting several for whom I did not do a review) and I have yet to have any of them say anything about my size. I always start out with a positive attitude, treat them with respect, make sure everything is clean and make it clear what I want. If I want to try something "new" or "different", all I expect is effort from them. If it doesn't work, fit, is uncomfortable, etc... I thank them for the effort and move on to a more reliable form of pleasure. I mostly have seen young girls, so I don't expect problem-solving and I am realistic, I am not a porn star, I can't do many of the things I have seen that look fun, just like I can't dunk even though I watch the NBA. I am in the 350 lbs range and 6'2", but I am happy to be with the lady, gentle in my touch and expect to have fun, so it is all good.
Laura Lynn's Avatar
I think it's worth a mention in your initial contact. As it's been said here, there are ladies that prefer to not see gents that are 50# or more over weight. Make sure to check a ladies bio.

Main thing is to always be squeaky clean down below. 😉