Newbie help - preferred methods to start the hobby

Greetings! I'm so overwhelmed from doing research that I just broke down and is making a thread.

Question: how would I start to get my first hookup?

I have seen ads on here from providers that say newbie friendly but then saying references/screening etc. I am working on a p411. Would this suffice until I can generate references? Many thanks to whoever can help me.

It can be difficult without references or p411, as you are finding out! Hang in there, it gets better.

Get your p411 account all set up, fill out your profile fully...we love that....and then start looking at the newbie friendly providers on p411 (there are some on eccie as well but it's a little easier to find on p411...it's right there on their profile). See a few girls, behave yourself and get a few provider 'okay's, and after that you should be in bidness!

Welcome to the hobby! Have fun!!

Very much obliged. Wouldn't have a problem with being nice, it's just that in this area of fun, people are weary of new blood.

ditto with Dannie!
Patience/Respect/and Research are your best friends on here!!

have fun!!