P*ssy Pics/Slutty Posts. Trashy or Not?

I'm not a guy, but I know what I prefer to see....

There's no reason to post a pic of your va-gi-gi...I understand that leaving something to the imagination is a good thing...but they do prefer face pics and unfortunately not all of us can do that because of discretion, which is perfectly understandable. And at least one full body pic so they can get a good idea whether you are a spinner, bbw, or an in-between....
As far as wording, be yourself...if you normally talk elegant then post that way...if you are more to the point, or trashy, ect....I'm actually a more 'to the point' type of poster, and sometimes I give a little too much away in my ads. This is one area where the ladies need to be more discreet. I've had my ads changed by the mods on other boards because I said too much of what I enjoy BCD.
So to wrap it all up, I think just being honest and leaving a bit of your own personality in it without showing or giving away too much is the best way to go!

I agree with you entirely, Tif. Thanks for the input.
I've dipped and dabbed in both of the posting styles. And honestly, I've posted a pic of mine before, Until I woke up and realized exactly what you've stated above.

I'm learning more and more about elegance, poise, discretion, and etc. each day.
I you guys!
And I'm glad I've finally merged from lurking to being apart of the community...

Now, guys...what's your take? Does the girl with the p*ssy pics and the slutty posts make you wanna play with HER or play with YOURSELF? Hehe.

I think there should always be a clear pu$$y/a$$ shot. It clearly shows what you are getting, but I also think it depends on what guys are into. IMHO.

I thought she was a va-JAY-JAY! Isn't that what Oprah calls her?

Frankly, I have never understood the attraction of a close up picture of a vagina or anus. They do not do anything for me and they provide only a very limited view.

I do believe that posting pictures of genitalia is classless. Then again, I'm too prude to even post a picture of my breasts.

I don't see any need for a vag shot. Blackjack's comment notwithstanding, i doubt many guys make a decision based on what a girl looks like in the 3" patch between her legs.

Personally, I'm most appreciative of an ad that exudes a classy sexiness, leaving the overt crassness out of it. I'll take a view of someone in a Victoria's Secret teddy (or even a classy gown) over a shot of someone with her legs spread wide any day. And the same goes for the language used in the ad. You can pen a very sexy ad without sounding like, dare i say, a slut.

I vote for the softer approach.

And we don't want to mess with Eccie's image standards.

Good thoughts!
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I think it depends on where your Ad is! As an ad on BP and an ad ECCIE generally have different target demographics, although there is some crossover!

With an ad on BP, I think you want stand out and grab the guys attn. So some extremely dirty talk might be the way to go, as there's hundreds of other ads to compete against.

While on ECCIE your usually dealing with guys that are looking for a classier lady. So being yourself would prob. be best, as you'll attract a customer that's more similar to you, which will make the overall experience that's much better for the both of you!

Now all that being said, honestly, I rarely look at the ad's wording at first. In fact on BP I go down clicking almost every new ad seeing if there's a girl that catches my eye. If her pics catch my eye, then I look at the format of her ad, as I won't see a girl that has an ad that is loaded with slang, or "ghetto speak"... then I do my research.

As for the p*ssy pics.... well.... they can be done in a classy manner, and those are what I suggest. The pic allows me to fantasize what I'm gonna be getting to play with later, and therefore the anticipation is more likely to push me to make the call. Maybe have a piece of lingerie just barely covering part of it for example. Showing just enough to give the imagination something to run with. Avoid spreading your lips or anything real raunchy! Think playboy or cable porn instead of hustler.

I don't want to see explicit photos, and certainly nothing gynecological.

My primary criteria in choosing a provider is her character. Next comes personality. Sometimes I have booked without ever even looking at her pictures. (Yes, I know I am odd.)

If you have room on your website, tell me what your areas of interest are outside of the hobby, what you studied in college, and stuff like that.

I consider stuff like Veejay shots to be a serious insult because I believe that tells me that the provider thinks I am so bereft of good sense that a gynecological shot is going to influence my decision positively.

In 3.5 years I have never booked a woman who provided such materials.

But, then again, maybe I'm not the kind of man that women who post such things are looking for. So maybe it would be a good thing.

Just call VeeJay shots "Laurentius repellent."
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Don't believe those photos are really needed. If you have a nice body and a pleasant personality I am good to go.

I don't care for the more explicit photos, personally. But in matters of taste, it is inevitable that people will have varying opinions.

I agree, classy comes first!

I was looking at Amanda Brooks' blog yesterday and she mentioned that she was only one of 5 independent escorts in Singapore, which I found interesting, so did a Google search on that and one of the independents that came up had mostly vaginal shots of herself. I was astounded.

I don't think that's classy at all and that has to reflect on the kind of men you'll attract. Depends what you're into I guess.

Leah Ireland