Question for the providers

I like only seeing girls that offer the ''total gfe experience'' When i set up a date i ask have you seen anyone yet that day.Some are cool with answering some act like they are offended.I'm i out of line for asking? the thought of being the 3rd or 4th guy of the day kinda spoils a lot of the gfe activity's if you get my drift.lol also to the girls if a guy did ask would you tell the truth

I think that it would be wiser to try your best to schedule the day b4 and ask for the first appointment of the day. I cant stand when a guy asks me that and only because if you want to be first so to speak then book more than an hour before , and dont get upset if a lady doesent want to tell you how many clients see has seen. I for one dont have this problem casue i only see maybe 2 guys a day.

I agree with Kaci.

If you want to be the first, schedule early enough to be the first. You should look into semi-or completely exclusive arrangements, cause you're sounding like a jealous boyfriend. Meeting certain providers is like inviting a drunk out for drinks and asking him how many beers he had that day. Even if he's trying to stay sober, it's still the possibility that he's had at least one.

But seriously, if you're looking for low volume providers, you should consider doing the research that supports she doesn't have a guy in and out her door every 1.5 hours. There is a very recent post with good ideas on how to do that. Good luck on all your future endeavors.

I don't think you are out of line...you are paying, you want to get what you are paying for...a freashly showered provider with lots of energy.
Like what was said earlier, ask for the first appointment, or find someone that is low volume.
I'm always honest, heck I have trouble doing role playing because I'm too honest, but I don't ever have more then one in a day...well, I think twice I had two in a day...So I'm probably not a good one to answer this...lol

This comment is simliar to one I just replied to on another thread, I also don't want to be #2, 3 or 4, so I try and do a little reseach and find a lower volume lady. If you asked the question, you will get what she thinks you want to hear for the most part. It is good advice to book early in the AM if you want to be first, but to the ladies, TC is spot on. Freashly showered and remember who is paying if you want a repeat oppty.

I met a lady who seemed low volume. We arranged a time together. During our time, we visited, some of that was about the hobby. I mentioned my desire of seeing low-volume providers because I didn't want to feel rushed, or the lady to feel mechanical.

My time with her was fantastic! omg, much longer than the two hours I booked. She allowed things with me not on her menu.

I assumed that she was only seeing me that day. During our time visiting, she did comment that maybe if a lady saw two guys in a day, the first was a warm-up for the second guy. And it was the second guy she really thought she'd enjoy more. By having him second (and last) she wouldn't feel rushed and also would be hornier than ever.

I later discovered, that she had entertained a guy right before I showed up. He had plenty of time, but wasn't allowed to linger, since I was soon arriving. He and I both had a good laugh about it. I never told him what she'd said. But based on my time with her, I can tell you she was really ready for me and I have to believe my time with her was better than it would have been otherwise.

I will be seeing her again.

My point, whether you're first or last, read reviews. You can't tell whether the guy writing the review was first or last. The lady he saw, made sure he had a good time.

Ladies, any comments?

I met a lady who seemed low volume. We arranged a time together. During our time, we visited, some of that was about the hobby. I mentioned my desire of seeing low-volume providers because I didn't want to feel rushed, or the lady to feel mechanical.

My time with her was fantastic! omg, much longer than the two hours I booked. She allowed things with me not on her menu.

I assumed that she was only seeing me that day. During our time visiting, she did comment that maybe if a lady saw two guys in a day, the first was a warm-up for the second guy. And it was the second guy she really thought she'd enjoy more. By having him second (and last) she wouldn't feel rushed and also would be hornier than ever.

I later discovered, that she had entertained a guy right before I showed up. He had plenty of time, but wasn't allowed to linger, since I was soon arriving. He and I both had a good laugh about it. I never told him what she'd said. But based on my time with her, I can tell you she was really ready for me and I have to believe my time with her was better than it would have been otherwise.

I will be seeing her again.

My point, whether you're first or last, read reviews. You can't tell whether the guy writing the review was first or last. The lady he saw, made sure he had a good time.

Ladies, any comments? Originally Posted by am-a-pleaser

Amen, brother!

It's up to the lady to make sure that her business model makes her and her gentleman callers comfortable where they can't tell whether he's first or number 4. Though it's not always apparent that a lady is high volume or low volume, as even rate structures give a false sense of security. It would be easy to say that if you're seeing a girl who's offering $60 quickies and it's 9pm that you're not her first client, but it's also hard to say that the stunning young lady who's rates are $400/hr isn't having a good day as well. Like Mr. Pleaser said, nobody WANTS to know they're a lady's number 4 of the day, but why worry if you're having a good time?

But going back to the OP's question, it seems to me that he's worried about the wrong thing. In asking that question he seems eager to sabotage the experience in his mind, or sabotage his thoughts about women. If your date is tired or robotic, and it's apparent she's not at 100% that's when you can ask. The goal of meeting an escort is to have a memorable, mind-blowing, out of this world experience. NO drama, NO 'normal' relationship thoughts. My thought about this PERIOD is if you can't accept the reality of the situation, get a girlfriend. And be faithful. And pray she's faithful to you.

I like only seeing girls that offer the ''total gfe experience'' When i set up a date i ask have you seen anyone yet that day.Some are cool with answering some act like they are offended.I'm i out of line for asking? the thought of being the 3rd or 4th guy of the day kinda spoils a lot of the gfe activity's if you get my drift.lol also to the girls if a guy did ask would you tell the truth Originally Posted by thedude1981

Your concerns are understandable to a certain point. And yes, if you ask a provider how many clients she has seen that day, she will at best be upset. Call ahead of time if you are able too, and see what her schedule is like for the time frame you are wanting. And knock on wood.... read the reviews. There are those of us out here that take the hobby very seriously and love what we do. FYI, providers whom use screening methods are more likely to be lower in volume because not all potential clients will pass our screening, so there may be days when our phones keep ringing, but we don't actually book appointments. Good luck.

I agree with Kaci.

If you want to be the first, schedule early enough to be the first. You should look into semi-or completely exclusive arrangements, cause you're sounding like a jealous boyfriend. Meeting certain providers is like inviting a drunk out for drinks and asking him how many beers he had that day. Even if he's trying to stay sober, it's still the possibility that he's had at least one.

But seriously, if you're looking for low volume providers, you should consider doing the research that supports she doesn't have a guy in and out her door every 1.5 hours. There is a very recent post with good ideas on how to do that. Good luck on all your future endeavors. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Don't think you understood my question............of coarse if you call late in the day odds are you will not be the first.And i never ask how many have you seen that day only if i can be the first.Some girls from out of town may have arrived late in the afternoon and there ready to start the ''work'' day that evening.Some start early in the morning. lol some work very late and don't get up until afternoon,All I'm saying is that i want someone fresh not worn out or bitchy because a guy treated her wrong or tired.

When i first started hobbling i was a little naive lol i saw a very cute girl she offered gfe had a good time she cleaned us both up used a warm wash cloth on me the had one for herself too. We got dressed she had another appointment on there way.I used the bathroom before i left. There was a big pile of wash cloths on the floor she did not shower between dates.if I just want a quick non gfe deal i don't care if I'm first or 4th but if i want a gfe then i ask...............

Dude81, I think you hit on something that can be a thread of it's own. GFE. Just what is GFE? We all know it stands for Girl Friend Experience, but I think it is used too much in a generic sense. Not all providers are real GFE. To me GFE would include what my real girlfriend would provide. Kissing, BBBJ, CFS and Conversation at a min. Now back to your regualar scheduled thread: Volume.

Dude81, I think you hit on something that can be a thread of it's own. GFE. Just what is GFE? We all know it stands for Girl Friend Experience, but I think it is used too much in a generic sense. Not all providers are real GFE. To me GFE would include what my real girlfriend would provide. Kissing, BBBJ, CFS and Conversation at a min. Now back to your regualar scheduled thread: Volume. Originally Posted by okcdude1971

That is my understanding of GFE...

Maybe instead of debating the "real" definition the acronym could be expanded to include variations for additional clarity.

GFE
GFEBCE - GFE but covered everything
GFEBNK - GFE but no kissing

or conversely GFE/KBBBJCFSCNV

How about GFEBCIBALST - GFE but Casey is being a little silly tonight

(And you thought we already needed an acronym dictionary...!)



Casey

1st off does it really matter if you are number 1 or number 2 if the provider provides you with what you asked for or in most cases what she advertised she would provide.We are all here and know what we are doing here...We ask for GFE and appreciate when a provider goes the nine yards to provide GFE ; but you have to be realistic and understand this is a business and if you get what you paid for be happy and enjoy the lady for what it was ...a couple of hours of fantasy with a woman that is trying her best to please you...as long as she is clean , happy to see you, ready for some action, and willing to listen to our crap.Dont worry be happy....lol

That is my understanding of GFE...

Maybe instead of debating the "real" definition the acronym could be expanded to include variations for additional clarity.

GFE
GFEBCE - GFE but covered everything
GFEBNK - GFE but no kissing

or conversely GFE/KBBBJCFSCNV

How about GFEBCIBALST - GFE but Casey is being a little silly tonight

(And you thought we already needed an acronym dictionary...!)



Casey Originally Posted by CaseyTaylor

lmao, That's part of the gfe. Having fun, being able to smile. Being silly. Luv ya Casey.

Hey, I have an idea. If anyone wants a really low volume provider, search for the reviews for ladies that consistently give an awful experience.

Otherwise, If you really want to know you're the first that day, have her spend the night.