Doubles Newbie and questions

Although it's been a fantasy, I've never experienced two women at once.

For those (providers, hobbyists) that do/have done this, what do you recommend besides the obvious?

Do you just choose any two providers or do you suggest it to one and go with whomever she may suggest?

What about the physical part of it? I don't want to get in the moment and cum to quickly. How is ensuring that I get the most out of my time and dollar?

Really anxious on trying this but I fear that most of my time will be spent on research and making sure I don't screw things up.

Advice and answers greatly appreciated.

Pick a lady you like. Ask her if she has friends she likes to work with. Let her know what you are looking for. Let HER pick the second lady.

There are two kinds of double sessions. One where both ladies are focused on you. One where the ladies are also into each each other. Let the provider who is coordinating the thing know which you prefer.

If the first type, ask both ladies to start with a double massage. If the second type, they could start playing without you....and you join in when you're ready. This will help with fears of cumming too soon.

Tell the provider who is setting it up your desires & concerns....then stand back & let her/them blow your mind.

Also....safety rules are different in a doubles session. For one thing you'll use LOTS of condoms.

Good luck! Doubles are my favorite!

Sage advice friend. Thank you.

You can go the route of asking a provider to bring a partner, or you can do research and find girls that have done doubles before and book them. Also, there are girls who advertise doing doubles and already have a partner.

The key rule with doubles is that the girls must be comfortable with each other. It is best if you pick girls that have worked together before or at least know each other. However you pick the ladies, the key is to communicate in advance with one or both. Tell them what you are interested in. If you want the girl on girl interaction, ask them ahead of time.

As for the actual physical part, don't worry about it. Let it flow naturally. Also, don't worry about cumming too quickly. The fun part of doubles is that if you really get into the session, nobody is counting how many times you pop. Also with doubles, it is almost expected that you will cum with each girl. It can be a mind blowing experience.

Although it's been a fantasy, I've never experienced two women at once.

For those (providers, hobbyists) that do/have done this, what do you recommend besides the obvious?

Do you just choose any two providers or do you suggest it to one and go with whomever she may suggest?

What about the physical part of it? I don't want to get in the moment and cum to quickly. How is ensuring that I get the most out of my time and dollar?

Really anxious on trying this but I fear that most of my time will be spent on research and making sure I don't screw things up.

Advice and answers greatly appreciated. Originally Posted by alex_reece

Leave your nerves at the door and stop worrying about pops, performance, and bang for your buck. Relax, take a deep breath, and allow interactions to come naturally. I can't speak for the other ladies, but I love being a "first" experience of doing doubles with a gent. Yes, it's hard to get to do everything ya want with both ladies in an hour and I suggest that you try for 90 minutes if ya don't want the time to zoom by or wanna give it more than one shot. I also would suggest that you share what your own fantasy of being with two women has been, so they can try to live up to your expectations.

I do doubles quite a bit and the acronym "WALDT" definitely applies to this situation. Some gents like all the attention on them, some like just watching the ladies play, and some kind of want it to be a free for all. So, be as specific as you can when you set it up. Remember to RELAX. The experience will be much more satisfying if you do and keep in mind, they don't call us professionals just for sh*ts and giggles. Most of us know how to please the gents......especially if we have an idea of their individual expectations.

Almost every first double I've experienced has been exciting and an experience to be remembered and often even repeated by the gent. There is nothing like seeing the anticipation when they arrive and then the elated smile on a gents face as he leaves. However, there have been two gents, in my own experiences, who have said doubles weren't for them. They both stated they enjoyed the experience, but were unable to pay attention to everything going on....LOL Guess they shoulda booked a longer session?!?!

Great advice from all to the OP. For me, I have my first doubles session set up for later this week. Both providers are ones I've been with individually, who also just happen to be great friends and will jump each others bones for fun OTC. I do think MAX has a great idea about trying to avoid the 1 hour limit. I'll have to talk to the ladies about extending that to 90 minutes at least. Thanks for the headsup MAX.

Great advice from all to the OP. For me, I have my first doubles session set up for later this week. Both providers are ones I've been with individually, who also just happen to be great friends and will jump each others bones for fun OTC. I do think MAX has a great idea about trying to avoid the 1 hour limit. I'll have to talk to the ladies about extending that to 90 minutes at least. Thanks for the headsup MAX. Originally Posted by RedLeg505

U betcha! It goes without saying, but ........you're going to have a great time! Go get 'em tiger!

Great advice all. Thanks so much.

I love sexually disappointing multiple women simultaneously.

Have done doubles many times. Good advice here already given. Particularly:

1 hour is not enough time

The ladies should know each other or at least have a desire to meet each other

In my experience, you can't script or plan a doubles session...just be loving, caring and enjoy the Hell out of the experience.

Go for it...you're gonna love it!

Is 90 even enough time? If you would want the two women to get off themselves? Is anything more than 90 minutes a bit overkill?

Alex -

90 min is prob the right time to schedule. It's always best if all three of you get some cookies (e.g. - all three get off), whether the two ladies interact or not.

And to reiterate what jsparrow said - don't try to script this. Everytime I have tried to script a double (or a triple!) session, it ended up going some totally different direction, that ended up being just as satisfying as my script.

And I would DEF recommend that you find two ladies who like to interact with each other! When I have done doubles with two ladies who don't interact, it always ends up with me interacting primarily with one, while the other sits off to the side. When everyone is interactive, nobody gets left out. And if you need some um, "recovery time", you can spend that watching the two ladies interact-with-each-other until you are recharged... (big pervo grin). Just my 2 cents...

Enjoy!

Best,
da Schnitz

Thanks kind sir.

Yes interaction is definitely one of my (newly added) requirements. I want everyone to participate.

Having experienced two girls just last night, it just affirmed my dislike for 3somes. Sure two girls at once was fun especially since they travel together so they know each other and there was no awkwardness on that part and yes getting to go from on wet pussy to another in less than 10 seconds was great, I personally like sexy times between just two people. Don't get me wrong, two chicks slobbering all over your cock and balls while you've got a cooter in each hand is great, it just doesn't quite seem as intimate as I'd like.

I'm not trying to talk you out of seeing two girls at once, if anything I'm encouraging you to try it. Just trying to say it'll likely confirm weather you like them or not.

As far as advice on trying to set that up, do like I did and find a provider that offers it. It's your best bet to find two providers that are ok with it and won't have any issue with each other.

Alex -

90 min is prob the right time to schedule. It's always best if all three of you get some cookies (e.g. - all three get off), whether the two ladies interact or not.

And to reiterate what jsparrow said - don't try to script this. Everytime I have tried to script a double (or a triple!) session, it ended up going some totally different direction, that ended up being just as satisfying as my script.

And I would DEF recommend that you find two ladies who like to interact with each other! When I have done doubles with two ladies who don't interact, it always ends up with me interacting primarily with one, while the other sits off to the side. When everyone is interactive, nobody gets left out. And if you need some um, "recovery time", you can spend that watching the two ladies interact-with-each-other until you are recharged... (big pervo grin). Just my 2 cents...

Enjoy!

Best,
da Schnitz Originally Posted by Another_Schnitzengruben?

Schnitz is right in a sense, but he does only have his own perceptions of his experiences to convey and how he felt about them or what makes him drool when he reads about others experiences of this nature....LOL (no disrespect meant da S) This is a top fantasy of most males and no two individuals have the same fantasy or expectations, similar.... sure. I know this, because I ask almost every one of the gents who wants to do this. The ladies might ask about your fantasy at some point, or maybe not.

And no, I wouldn't "script" the session, but do give them an idea if you really expect them to give you their best. I've done one scripted session from a gent and no, it didn't turn out as he imagined. I wasn't given a heads up about that until right before he got to the session and the direction wasn't great....ijs. Much to my dismay, it wasn't one of his better double sessions, but my perception of what he wanted, as relayed to me by the other lady, was different than what he actually wanted, therefore, I learned the hard way.....now I ask what their fantasy normally consists of. No biggie...easy to ask, easy to answer, great results! ijs

You could just keep your mouth shut and let the chips fall where they may and it still turns out great. IMO...communication is always a KEY element if you really want an outstanding sexual encounter. Don't take my word for it. Experiment and experience, I say! And do both often! I have and still do! woot!

Have fun, hon!