Providers gaining weight.

lingam4u's Avatar
Why is it that many providers are gaining weight when they should be motivated to look their very best for themselves and their clients. They obviously dont feel good about their weight gain as they continue to advertise with old pictures from thinner times and reviewers are often reluctant to report a significant weight gain. I know many providers are not thin and never were and that is fine as they are very comfortable that way and their clients are as well. I just want to know about the ones who had a toned body at one time and just let things slide. It just seems like there are more and more that are letting themselves go. Any reason why?
This ought to be entertaining...

DallasRain's Avatar
It can be so easy "to let yourself go"...it starts out slowly,then before you know it..bam you weigh 160 lbs!!!{thats what happened to me 4 years ago....I was 100lbs,no titties,tanned,and toned tightly.....I moved to Oregon and gained 60lbs & went from a 34b to a 36D}....so when I moved back to Texas,I went on a strict diet & fitness regimen....I still don't do everything I should,but try to eat right & exercise as much as possible..I am now down to 130 and have 5 lbs more to go...I am in much better shape than I have ever been...my clients say that I am "athletic"
{oh and i did get to keep my 36d cups...lol}
Miss_Mya's Avatar
It can be so easy "to let yourself go"...it starts out slowly,then before you know it..bam you weigh 160 lbs!!!{thats what happened to me 4 years ago....I was 100lbs,no titties,tanned,and toned tightly.....I moved to Oregon and gained 60lbs & went from a 34b to a 36D}....so when I moved back to Texas,I went on a strict diet & fitness regimen....I still don't do everything I should,but try to eat right & exercise as much as possible..I am now down to 130 and have 5 lbs more to go...I am in much better shape than I have ever been...my clients say that I am "athletic"
{oh and i did get to keep my 36d cups...lol} Originally Posted by DallasRain
That is so true about how easy it is when I first moved here from the Philippines I weighed around 105 pounds and slowly over the years I put on some weight. Recently I joined a gym and started to really eat healthy. I have already lost around 20 pounds and I am hoping to get back down to my 105 weight from just a few years ago.
lingam4u's Avatar
Dallas, you are a great role model. Your body in your pics probably accurate presents your present athletic body and weight and is quite sexy at your present weight. Unfortunately, most providers who go from 100 to 160 stay around 160, never workout and some continue to post their 100 pound pics. Some even go up to 180 and seem to be in total denial about what their clients are expecting.
lingam4u's Avatar
Ms Mya, good for you as well. Should serve to motivate others. In my experience, hardly any providers workout, even the thinner ones.
PaganGuy's Avatar
People change physically.. especially women over time.. its the course of nature
one who appreciates true beauty understands it is a process, an evolution even, that in different stages of anyones life there are differences. I of course have a personal preference for not only curvier women, but also natural looking women and would much rather see a happy, self assured, stable women who knows she is beautiful as she is than one who struggles and lives in miserable denial of her own pleasure to conform to society's standards of beauty. As a genuine hedonist in every respect, indulgence is everyone's right and a lady who isnt afraid to have a few beers and enjoy a good meal and loosen her belt (or corset.. rawr!) and be genuinely content and happy is a goddess I will kneel before time and again. I find anorexic types, fake boobs, fake lips, botox, even too much makeup rather repulsive personally. A beautiful woman is as the gods made her.
DallasRain's Avatar
Good luck Mya!!
Good point Lingam! I try to keep my pics current--changing them out every month or two!

Pagen--thats cool...I do believe you should "
be comfortable in your skin".....
lingam4u's Avatar
Pagan, I agree with everything you say. Providers can and should present themselves in a comfortable and honest way. I am talking about providers who just let their bodies get heavy and out of shape and dont take any action to remedy the situation and still present themselves the way they looked when they were in "better shape" for them. It is as though they feel bad about not looking the way they did but will do nothing about it and pretend they havent changed. I read in many reviews, that guys are trying to figure out from old pics and old weight stats, exactly what the provider looks like and each reviewer is often afraid to tell the truth. I am all for providers just telling it the way it is because they feel good about themselves now.
Valentine Michael's Avatar
Providers are people. Have you seen Americans in general? Lots of people let themselves go for lots of different reasons. I suspect escorts do for the same reasons.
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Why is it that many providers are gaining weight when they should be motivated to look their very best for themselves and their clients. They obviously dont feel good about their weight gain as they continue to advertise with old pictures from thinner times and reviewers are often reluctant to report a significant weight gain. I know many providers are not thin and never were and that is fine as they are very comfortable that way and their clients are as well. I just want to know about the ones who had a toned body at one time and just let things slide. It just seems like there are more and more that are letting themselves go. Any reason why? Originally Posted by lingam4u
The visit shouldn't be all about the visual aspect, but the entire alluring experience. If providers were plastic manikins, that's about as interesting as your visit should be - plan and uninteresting.

A person should be comfortable in their skin and about themselves in general. One should never forget that we are all kids in this "sand box" and have lives outside the box that have to be dealt with. Consideration for this be noted and remembered. As long as a person is up front about who they are, and what's to be expected - that should be more than enough. And in my opinion, is certainly fair to all involved and interestd.
Why is it that many providers are gaining weight ... ? Originally Posted by lingam4u
I heard it's because we're all sitting at our incalls all day, eating bonbons, perfectly made up and coiffed and waiting anxiously for your call.
lingam4u's Avatar
Carrie, if you were in Houston, you would already have received my call. If you are eating bonbons, you must be working off those calories to keep that gorgeous body. What are you doing?
I agree with what everyone has said, I just dont understand why providers who had a good figure are not working to maintain it if they feel their body is a selling point. If they dont care to maintain it, then they should post accurate current pictures of themselves. I agree also that personality is the most important aspect and not looks but that is not the issue I am talking about.
I heard it's because we're all sitting at our incalls all day, eating bonbons, perfectly made up and coiffed and waiting anxiously for your call. Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest
lingam4u's Avatar
I am getting into the home delivery bonbon business for sure. You bonbon eaters are hot. I can provide other services during the delivery.