Strap-ons for men who want a "Big Dick Experience" to use on women

So here's the deal folks. I'm looking for a strap-on recommendation. I am very small down in the pants. I love to bang girls with a big strap on so I can have a "BDE" I guess. I have used this:

http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Ul.../dp/B00347A4X4

But its a little too thick for some women. I would also like to get one a little longer, and not so thick, and perhaps a little curve to it.

I also need a better harness; this Doc Johnson harness is kinda cheap and unstable. So any recommendations you would have would help.

I am also interested in being pegged. So post yourself with your tools that are ideal for prostate simulation. Post model names, stats and links to where you bought them.

Have you checked the "Another Realm" forum? You will find much discussion and suggestions on the subjects you posted about.

Moved per OP request.

http://www.extremerestraints.com/strap-ons_36/

Check them out. Great products

I have relatively limited experience with this except for the one man that showed up with a strap on to have penetration with me well, it really hurt me.

A man cannot feel what he's doing with that strap on. It's not like a bonified live cock that with the right angle, just slides in.

Guess that my one, little(!), suggestion would be to make sure that dildo is strapped on tight to your pelvic region so it doesn't wiggle around a lot.

That suggestion probably wasn't much help. Maybe another lady, or more, will chime in.

Take care,
Elisabeth

How big was this strap on that he used?

How big was this strap on that he used? Originally Posted by Jagermonster

It was a significant size but that's not what hurt .. and he hurt me fairly badly after we tried a few times to make what he had in mind, work. I had to stop the appointment when it happened. Readjust. In the end, it worked out alright.

It was the dildo itself. It wasn't on him correctly. I've seen this when I've done strap on.

You need to have the harness on you securely or otherwise, just trying to insert a dildo while it's bending in the middle and not staying straight is painful.

I'm having a difficult time trying to write an explanation. Sorry about that.

If the dildo isn't hard, and especially if it's made of that gross jelly material, then it bends and moves everywhere. If you have a tight well ... pussy ... then it doesn't go in easily. A male cock, and his attached pelvis, is just made to penetrate if a woman is tight. If a man has an erection, he will always well, be able to "fuck". I guess so is a dildo, in theory.

But if it's one of those soft ones that everyone sells online, etc., then it's just not always workable. Plus, I put condoms on sex toys and then, lube is really needed because of the materials being used.

Again, I don't think that I'm making much sense. Probably should have left your topic alone, even though it's a good topic.

That makes sense, you worded the problem pretty well, and I will keep this in mind.

http://www.extremerestraints.com/strap-ons_36/

Check them out. Great products Originally Posted by RoxyDDD

Which would you recommend for a man who wants to do a woman? The 10 inch vibrating strap on looks awesome. Its over 100 bucks.... but I would love to have one of those between my legs!

Any other ladies have suggestions?