Pros (eccie) vs. semi pros (seeking arrangement)

john_smith_40's Avatar
Exploring another avenue I signed up for SA. Im finding it an interesting approach to meeting new friends anywhere from 18 to 35. I have on going chats with them over txt to determine how well it fits. An initial meeting in person (coffee) to in person interview. Im close to executing on at least one for a every other week meeting.... $1k a month. Now your reaction may be... wow thats too high but keep in mind that the meetings are 5 hrs each, so thats $100 / hr.

You can have the debate on experience, sausage mileage or safety. Some of these ladies are very open to activities. Bbbjcim, anal, bondage, bi sexual etc... They also range anywhere from horny house wives to hungry teenagers.

Thoughts?
john_smith_40's Avatar
SA costs are pretty high so signing up for a month, making contacts and getting is a good model to follow.
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I continue to be amazed at the traffic im getting. 5 different girls in various stages of vetting over txt. Meeting one tomorrow in lawerence and another on friday in op.

First one I met was into all kinda kinky shit. 18yr old and cut me because I wasnt open to accepting a ladyboy wasnt an actual girl :S. Rough sex, choking and even simulated rape was her things. I was like jesus you are only 18 :/
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Second meeting went well. Surprise surprise... she bi with an active bi gf. Guess thats what she meant by "wild" on the txt msgs lol. Promising girl, decent looking.
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Thanks for the thread.

The concept certainly has it's merits in my view. There's an up side and a down side to everything...

Attachments are one big pitfall, regarding both parties. There's more potential for drama and unpleasant consequences, obviously.

In this culture, males don't seem to want to communicate(stereotype), but in my opinion, and I have done this, (kind of fell into it anyway) but one is called upon to keep restating "the deal" over and over, openly, just to keep things clear.

Eventually, I think it's really just another way to "do it". Shit can get weird in any scenario.

Have fun!