- cardinal_man09
- 06-27-2014, 09:13 PM
Alright, reading on here the LE is hot all over, I'm extremely new at this, I had a P411 at one time, made a date but chickened out a couple of years ago, I'm pretty interested. Would it be weird if I knew someone that is in this hobby(about 99% sure), they know me a little. But I don't think they know that I know, maybe they do. How should I ask or should I ask? By the looks of it no one is seeing any newbies. And by the same token I done want to see a newbie. Just wonder how any of you might handle this
- kylayoung
- 06-28-2014, 04:39 PM
Hey sexy!
I know I am not a Little Rock based provider, but I do go all over the country and have been doing this a long time. I have been contacted and have seen someone from RW before and turned down RW people I know as well and see newbies so wanted to give my 2 cents
Let me ask you first:
Does the person you think you know, know your real name? Speaking from a provider that does see newbies (however I screen very tight) when a newbie contacts me I need all RW info to get them verified in order to see. During that, your real info is going to be available to her and depending on how you know her she may decide to go ahead and book or not. Also if you don't tell her who you are and you show up, it may not go well when and if she opens the door. Best to be honest with her and let her decide if she wants to see you or not. If you are wrong and you don't know her, then no harm is done, but if you are right....better let her decide for herself.
Each provider is different on how they handle those situations. I had a very good client who was married and asked me if I would please for Valentines Day see him and his wife. He didn't tell me her name but since he was such a good client, I agreed. When they showed up, I had to pretend I was meeting him for the first time and unbeknownst to him, pretending I was also meeting her for the first time. I quickly hugged her and said "Hi my name is Kyla!" Her eyes were so big and she was in as much shock as me. This was an old co-worker of mine from a RW job! So now she thinks I have never met him and he thinks this is the first time I ever met her! It was very nerve racking for all 3 of us. Everyone afraid someone would slip up. I don't know if the 2 of them every confessed to each other, but after that I said no more couples and no more RW clients. Its too scary! There is always a chance the other person will tell someone and that someone tells someone and so forth.
Is it worth the risk to you and to her?
Welcome to the hobby and don't be too scared. Be diligent and careful and you'll do fine! There are providers out there, like myself, that do see newbies but be prepared to give up RW info for her to feel comfortable seeing you. P411 is still the best way to go, but with no okays, you may still get asked for more info. Just google the provider and research her until you know she is legit and then go for it
Its an awesome ride once you get going!
Kisses,
Kyla
I know I am not a Little Rock based provider, but I do go all over the country and have been doing this a long time. I have been contacted and have seen someone from RW before and turned down RW people I know as well and see newbies so wanted to give my 2 cents
Let me ask you first:
Does the person you think you know, know your real name? Speaking from a provider that does see newbies (however I screen very tight) when a newbie contacts me I need all RW info to get them verified in order to see. During that, your real info is going to be available to her and depending on how you know her she may decide to go ahead and book or not. Also if you don't tell her who you are and you show up, it may not go well when and if she opens the door. Best to be honest with her and let her decide if she wants to see you or not. If you are wrong and you don't know her, then no harm is done, but if you are right....better let her decide for herself.
Each provider is different on how they handle those situations. I had a very good client who was married and asked me if I would please for Valentines Day see him and his wife. He didn't tell me her name but since he was such a good client, I agreed. When they showed up, I had to pretend I was meeting him for the first time and unbeknownst to him, pretending I was also meeting her for the first time. I quickly hugged her and said "Hi my name is Kyla!" Her eyes were so big and she was in as much shock as me. This was an old co-worker of mine from a RW job! So now she thinks I have never met him and he thinks this is the first time I ever met her! It was very nerve racking for all 3 of us. Everyone afraid someone would slip up. I don't know if the 2 of them every confessed to each other, but after that I said no more couples and no more RW clients. Its too scary! There is always a chance the other person will tell someone and that someone tells someone and so forth.
Is it worth the risk to you and to her?
Welcome to the hobby and don't be too scared. Be diligent and careful and you'll do fine! There are providers out there, like myself, that do see newbies but be prepared to give up RW info for her to feel comfortable seeing you. P411 is still the best way to go, but with no okays, you may still get asked for more info. Just google the provider and research her until you know she is legit and then go for it
Its an awesome ride once you get going!
Kisses,
Kyla