Reference

RebeccaBaby's Avatar
I am just wondering if it is the norm here for girls to not provide references for one another? I do not post much and always keep to myself, but tonight I had 2 girls from here both tell me I had the wrong number when calling them, at the number on their ad and the number the gents provided (which were the same number). I know I had the right number and I think its just a shame. What do they have to gain? If you are a good provider and treat your clients right they will still come back to see you again.

Guys like variety, that is why they are in the hobby. Its just childish to think that girls will not provide references because they think it will keep their business with them. Just be your best and treat your clients right and they will come back.

I travel all over the country and never had such a hard time getting a reference. Most reputable girls know there is a sisterhood and a safety in sticking together and helping each other out.

Rebecca_Baby
I don't know. If I can I always provide a reference
woody4eroticfun's Avatar
Please let the client know, they may need to find new providers who do provide references. It might help if the client gave their references a heads-up of who might be calling them. I have had local providers who are resistant to provide references, I guess for fear of losing business to traveling ladies. As a result, I have a few traveling ladies that I use as references.
RebeccaBaby's Avatar
I did the the gents know. Thank you for the input.
woody4eroticfun's Avatar
Rebecca, I love your showcase pic of you doing the chinese splits on the couch, all I can say is DAAAAMN.....
Audrey Astor's Avatar
I experienced some of that when I first started working there. I don't work a lot off of references though. For the record, I am 100% reference friendly. Maybe us ladies could include a note in our ad or showcase indicating how we prefer to receive reference requests?
I dont mind giving references however I do want my client to give me a heads up so that I can provide one for them. the only reason for me wanting the client to let me know is so that I will know its the provider asking for it and not some who has compromised their account.
And if I have seen them within the last 6 months and nothing over that, because I wouldnt feel safe saying ya so and so is good knowing I hadnt seen him in over 6 months when anything or anyone can change.
DallasRain's Avatar
Anytime ya need a reference from me...just holler

WE ALL GOTTA KEEP EACH OTHER SAFE
RebeccaBaby's Avatar
Thank you ladies!!! I appreciate the support.
noleftturn's Avatar
Stick with P411 with several okays, you can't go wrong.lol
Stick with P411 with several okays, you can't go wrong.lol Originally Posted by noleftturn

Not everyone is a member of P411 who might be interested in a visit.