Eccie vs Backpage

Alright so this past weekend was the first time I was able to get out and enjoy myself in a few months. I made an apt with an Eccie provider (Kortney K) for Friday October 31st. The date went great I had a wonderful time even felt so good I went to a party at Visions after getting an invite from a dancer I knew there and my night went even better. So after dragging my tired self home at 5 am, and then getting woken up by idiotic cleaning ladies at noon I decided to try having another good time with another provider. My huge mistake was instead of contacting another Eccie provider or calling Kortney K again and seeing if she was free I was a moron and called a girl off of Backpage.
I had a feeling this was a bad idea when the first thing this woman on the phone started doing is trying to get me to make an appointment not only with her but her friend also and she made mention of me tipping her for suggesting her friend to me. I politely declined because threesomes are not part of my bucket list and I asked the woman alone for a date. She showed up over an hour late, and when we returned to my room things just went downhill from there. The woman insisted I buy her a soda down the hall even though when she came in she already had a can of soda in her hand. After taking her to get the soda, she continually tries to convince me to call her friends over even going so far as to show me their ads on backpage also. After refusing more than twice on the extra company I paid her for 2 hours of her time and we commenced to do our business. After the first round, she asks me if she can take a shower which I said was fine. The woman then picks up all her clothes her purse and her phone and takes it all into the bathroom. I laid there looking at the tv and when I heard her voice in the bathroom I muted it to see if she was talking to me. Almost at the exact moment she finishes her shower there is a knock at my door. I got dressed and every bone in my body was telling me something was wrong so I left the security bolt attached and opened the door wide enough to see who it was. A mid-sized black guy in shabby clothes was there after he tried to push his way in and failed he said "Tell her to come on". I told him to take his hand off the door and shut it and locked the deadbolt. The girl opened the bathroom door and actually said "who was that?". I said it was her driver who was telling her to get dressed and come on even though only 45 minutes of the already paid for 2 hours had passed. She started to say something about her kids being sick and my bullshit meter just buried the needle. I saw the money I had handed her on the bathroom counter so I picked it up went to my bags and sat on the bed near the window. Mind you this entire time this woman is getting dressed this moron is still knocking on the door. Being a born and bred native of Pine Bluff told me that this whole thing was some huge setup so I took my pistol out of my bag, chambered a round, set the safety, and placed the gun on top of my bag. Not once did I touch it after it nor did I ever say anything about it being there but the girl heard me when I chambered the gun. I stood there at the hallway where the 2 doors were and counted out $200 of the money I had taken off the bathroom counter. I told the woman that since she did not fulfill the entire 2 hours and did not even stay a full hour that this amount was her payment. She started complaining saying I owed her all the money I had handed to her earlier and I told her that this whole bullshit game she was trying to pull was not going to work and she would be lucky with the $200 I was holding out to her in my hand. Tears were forming in her eyes and she tried to say something about how I was hurting her children with what I was doing. I cut her off and told her simply "I am not responsible for your problems". I finally said she could either take the $200 or walk out empty handed. She took the money and walked out. After waiting a few minutes for her to clear the building I went downstairs and told the front desk clerk is that man she noticed walked in again to call the police. When I returned to my room my phone rang and it was the woman who had just left, only this time it was the pimp on the phone saying that I owed him some more money and he was going to come up and collect it. I replied that he was more than welcome to try. Needless to say nothing happened I left the next morning unharmed. This whole incident has showed me the huge difference in the women here who put in more effort and some ghetto hoodrats hoping to scam people too scared to stand up for themselves. The girl on backpage was called Sara but she also called herself honey once and the name Heather was tattooed on her back. I am not trying to scare or impress anyone with this story because honestly I was more scared than anyone that night because the last thing I wanted to do was shoot anyone or even think I might have to. But honestly people, is it worth the lower price of another provider or is it better to just keep going to a provider you know will do their best to make everyone happy?

Without links or photos for or from the BP ads your info is not helpful.

When I was seeing girls on BP with no references I always packed.

Here is the link of the ad the woman posted this morning same woman same phone number

http://littlerock.backpage.com/Femal...pscale/5852640

I'm not saying there are not good providers on back page but why take the chance of going through all the drama when you could use an eccie provider who is well reviewed and you know what your getting into even if it cost extra at least it would of been well worth it

Here is the link of the ad the woman posted this morning same woman same phone number

http://littlerock.backpage.com/Femal...pscale/5852640 Originally Posted by Mikali72

Firstly, not all BP ladies are like this. Second, whenever the ad says No AA, that's a red flag for me. Pimps don't let their girls see other black guys as a rule. Especially not younger black guys.

Selena I watched your ads all week when you posted you were going to be in NWA that weekend and I was not getting to NLR until Friday I just chalked it up to bad timing I was actually wanting to call you for an apt that weekend.

HMM I think I read a post about that one and a similar instance..

you sir are lucky not to have had that situation escalate to the point of needing to use your .45 displaying it for the "lady" may have been the reason her manager didn't press the issue.

I'm not saying there are not good providers on back page but why take the chance of going through all the drama when you could use an eccie provider who is well reviewed and you know what your getting into even if it cost extra at least it would of been well worth it Originally Posted by Selena25

Oh Selnia I long to see you but your hours and mine don't match up..... Damn job

it was a .40 S&W but yeah I get your point

I am offering weekend Incalls know so maybe that helps some of y'all's schedules

UnderConstruction is right. Ive also had several good experiences with bp girls. When i do see bp girl that has no reviews, i always bring exact donation and i always ask for 1/2 hr just in case things went sour i could leave without losing to much money. I say good for you for standing up to that pimp the way you did.

She also goes by sugar and is a big time con artist! Take this man's advice and stay away or pay the price that may not be the price you want to pay! She posted on eccie for a short time.

opps sorry. BTW .40 is my caliber of choice. I own 2 a S&W SDVE .40 I keep around the bed for anyone stupid enough to break in to my house at night and a M&P shield for concealed carry!

Lol I think the fact that I am 6 feet 4 inches tall and weigh like 450 is the reason the guy did not try to push the door open and rush in. I never had to deal with the pimp really it was all the girl who was whining and bitching when I took the money back and told her the $200 was all she was getting Other than calling me and talking shit he never got the chance to do anything.

I cant recall hearing similar stories from the NWA area. Hopefully, that pimp BS stays away.