This list, which Mia Christine maintains, is very helpful.
Newbie Friendly
On that list I can recommend Just Alisha and Daddys Girl as women who are level-headed, understand what they're doing, and will take care of you and treat you right outside of the bedroom as well as in. I have it in my head that Sweet Sonya is also newbie friendly. If so, she is also a great choice for an introduction to all the aspects that go in to seeing a provider.