Diamond strange and no good

I arrived at her hotel she told me her room number,as I entered the hotel lobby I saw her but made no attempt to contact her I went to her room knocked on the door and no answer.I was scared because when I had pulled into the hotel parking earlier I saw a police patrol car with an officer parked in the vehicle.I waited at the door for 7 minutes and texted I was here, but no answer.I left just as I was about to enter the elevator I saw her step out,but made no attempt to contact her as i was about to leave the hotel i got another text saying to come back to the hotel.I went back to the room and waited a whole nother 10 minutes no answer.UGGGGGH what a waste of time its providers like these who make it bad for the good ones. this took place on 12/6/2014

I believe the outspoken ladies have offered an opinion to a similar scenario before; it has been said that if you see only reputable women, this wouldn't play out the way it did. This invariably occurs to those who see women of questionable integrity (in most cases BP).

Also, if the presence of LE is worth mentioning, try for a moment to engage your big head with the viewpoint of your lady of the night.
If you didn't actually want to see her, count it a blessing she didn't recognize you as her caller.
If you were comfortable enough to stand in the general vicinity of her room that long after seeing her not once, but twice, you still must have been willing to proceed.

Let's open the question for the ladies with addendums -
Did he do right by himself to leave? Did he do right by the lady?
Would it - in this or any case - be appropriate for him to have made some sort of introduction during either spotting?
How would you have had a gentleman act should 'an emergency' call you away from your incall momentarily?

Who knows? The whole thing sounds strange to me. I'm sure her story would be different than his.

If I am expecting company, I have certain things I do right before the appointment (mouthwash, etc.), and I am always dressed in a manner that would not be appropriate being out running around in the public. I expect a phone call 3-5 minutes prior to appointment to get my apartment/room number, so I would never be in a lobby. So, this is why I think it's very strange.

He did right by not approaching her in public. If I were him, I would not stand at the door for a lengthy time for fear or making a scene, and being questioned by someone. Hopefully he has better luck and adventures in the future.

Thanks for your input Holly! I can confidently say that were this a first meet or intro, I would not have been as brave (or persistent) as the OP.

He should have ran up to her hugged the living crap out of her, and said in a loud voice, I haven't seen you in such a long time, I can't believe your here. I can't believe you still look like your photos.

I'm discreet and yes at algrace I should start going for providers on ECCIE I have met girls on BP who have no integrity and will do something ratchet to you if given the chance i.e lie to get money.set you up to be robbed or etc.

@ Holly than why would she wait in the lobby and the look she gave me seemed like she recognized me.if she saw me at the door she just could have texted me sorry no appointment.Once again BP is a cesspool of liars and dishonest providers.I 'm going to start seeing more Eccie providers BP is just a click away from a robbery or worse.

This is weird. I'm with Holly, I'm in my room doing last minute prepping while waiting for my gentleman friend to arrive. I'm rarely hanging out in a fn lobby. That's just asking for problems. Look-at-me-hookers have no tact or discretion. I don't get it.

@ Holly than why would she wait in the lobby and the look she gave me seemed like she recognized me.if she saw me at the door she just could have texted me sorry no appointment.Once again BP is a cesspool of liars and dishonest providers.I 'm going to start seeing more Eccie providers BP is just a click away from a robbery or worse. Originally Posted by kusmaldo

I don't know the answers to your questions, honey. That is just the weirdest thing. Being on ECCIE or P411 does not equate to a great provider or experience though either. Backpage does not equate to a robbery or poor provider. Many good providers utilize Backpage as an advertising venue. You just will need to get a little more savy in your research. I'm sure the guys here can give you some pointers. You will be having great experiences in no time!

I don't know the answers to your questions, honey. That is just the weirdest thing. Being on ECCIE or P411 does not equate to a great provider or experience though either. Backpage does not equate to a robbery or poor provider. Many good providers utilize Backpage as an advertising venue. You just will need to get a little more savy in your research. I'm sure the guys here can give you some pointers. You will be having great experiences in no time! Originally Posted by Holly Love

Couldn't have said it better myself!

This is weird. I'm with Holly, I'm in my room doing last minute prepping while waiting for my gentleman friend to arrive. I'm rarely hanging out in a fn lobby. That's just asking for problems. Look-at-me-hookers have no tact or discretion. I don't get it. Originally Posted by Gemma34

+1

For me, I would not be in the Lobby area or elsewhere in the hotel beside if I'm leaving to go out and get food.

For expecting an appointment to show. I'm in a room made self ready and prep room to be cozy ie; candle lite, soft sexy music, made up the bed sheets, room smell clean. Put away personal items so, it doesn't look clutter like a crashed pad.

I don't do back to back appt. I enjoy touring as for myself to get out of my own home town things to do such as walk at the mall or interesting places to visit.

However, in this situation it is very strange and I would have avoided and not even go to the room and stand in the hall way for a long period of time.

If she has to get out of her room to get some snack or whatever, she should text you to let you know as she may not answer the door when you're there or to wait for her signal when she get back to her room. The door should have leave lightly open so, there is no knocking especially during the day time when the housekeepers are working the entire floors. That will make it natural and smooth without being notice some sort of traffic.

@gemma yes this provider was like 21 most likely new.I knew it was her when I saw her the second time coming out of the elevator.Than she texts me again to come back and again dosn't asnwer the door.Sometimes young and cute photos provide the worst service.

@holly usually it's spur of the moment and I have a dinky little flip phone which is not great for photos.
I do try to research. Its really hit and miss when your a client.

@emmie ditto