Kidnapping. As part of a scene.

I've attended a workshop on kidnapping scenarios, once. A very long time ago.

And I'm trying to work out a scenario where kidnapping is an integral part, or the scary part, of what I'm trying to plan for someone special.

Anyone have any suggestions? I'm making my initial post short on purpose. I wanted to get some thoughts, before sharing more of mine, and coloring the direction of this thread.

Thanks,
Elisabeth

P.S. If you have something to share that is too concerning to post here, please send me an e-mail or a PM. Again, big smile and thanks!

sounds like a devious creative project...
just think of all the places to be taken...
what fun could be had with transport...
erotic and elaborate...
start out uptown...
end up downtown...

I've always thought about a pillow case over the head and hands restrained. If you are going to travel by car, need some one to act as a safety and make sure the vic is seatbelted in and someone can care for them while riding in a car... or stoped by LE.

Just some random thoughts...
h_s

Plenty of fun ideas to do here, it depends on what level of resistance the "victim" is likely to put up/desures to have. Some people will submit rather willingly/easily, others are all about the resistance play. Also, some people want to be kidnapped in public and transported somewhere, to add to the mystery, while others are content for a "break-in" special (think pizza delivery or travelling sexy saleswoman) who pulls out a "gun" and threatens them. Still others are intrigued by being "knocked out" with pills/chloroform/etc. (I know you won't, but for others please don't do that!) So first, figure out how cooperative the person will be in this scenario.

If you are going to "kidnap" in public, some good ideas might be luring them into the backseat of the car, where you pull out a "gun" (might even be loaded with icewater or some other fun liquid) and have them put handcuffs on, then lie down over the seats and put a pillowcase over the head or a blindfold/etc. After that, throw a blanket over them, then play some loud music and drive for 5-10 minutes, making sure to do several turns. Perhaps tap on the brakes a bit more than necessary, etc. If they have an SUV, you can put the back seats down and have them lie down. Most will have hooks for cargo nets which can be used as a makeshift attachment point for ropes, etc. Again, a blanket is a good idea. I don't recommend the trunk thing if you have a car, as that is way difficult to pull off unless you start in a private garage, and getting someone in restraints in and out can be problematical at best.

If you have a garage for the "kidnapping," that is more suitable for someone wanting to struggle and be transported. Get them into bondage however, throw them in the car, then drive them around for a bit. Even take them back to the same place. Also during transport, headphones with loud music can be fun, but be careful about gags unless you have a passenger to monitor the "victim" fulltime. Even with a ballgag or such, bad things can happen.

If it is more about being caught in the moment, there are a lot more creative ways to do things. Get them on the bed then slap handcuffs on, or handcuffs in a couch cushion, or even have a second or third person to help overpower them. Simulate knockout drops/etc.

However if you want to go a more manipulative route, you can go for a "blackmail" scenario, where "You will do as I say or <bad thing>" will happen - something unpleasant. They can be made up "I will release giggle gas into the Serious Summit" or something more realistic. Just how serious you are about consequences depends upon your relationship and knowledge of the victim. Or be the seductive siren that lures the victim into a compromising situation and then changes mid-course into the serial rapist/whatever your fancies desire.

Sensory deprivation will help with creating the proper mindset. Even if you can't go outside in public, spinning them around while blindfolded then leading them somewhere, especially with earplugs or headphones, can be fun. Also, think about the pace of things - giving them a "hurry up hurry up, wait here, wait here, hurry up" can psychologically keep them on edge. Even if it is taking a couple steps forward, stopping, turning them around, doing it again, sit down, stand up, that can be fun. Pretty much anything random will work as well - keep them from guessing what is going on, and always try to maintain momentum. Just when they think they have a minute to relax, throw something new at them, and when they think it is over the top, back off a bit. Alternate being kind and cruel, "Oh, are those cuffs too tight, let me loosen them." then push them down on the bed or couch, and put some other restraint on before loosing the cuffs. Try to get the Stockholm Syndrome going. Think "reward rarely and randomly, punish always" and give chances for the victim to cooperate, but also do things against their will. Be a little bit nice then a lot meaner.

* - note all suggestions are for people consenting to behavior, whether directly or as part of a consensual non-consent scene, which I am sure this will be.

Good luck, and I am sure your "victim" will enjoy himself immensely at your devious hands!

PS - Hardy Haberman had some great thoughts on takedowns and kidnap play, not sure if he has them in book form but a google search might be worth it. I know he did an excellent class on it a couple of years ago at a fetish convention.

I've had my house "broken into" late at night when I was really asleep, so I didn't know when it was coming. It was scary and fun but mostly it was scary.

Anyway, since most girls can't really take down a guy unless they are trained somehow, you could convince him that you have put something in his drink after blackmailing him/her or luring them somewhere. Maybe you were previous business partners? Or it could be just a straight up kidnapping for money scenario.

What about telling your "victim" to meet you in a parking garage? They don't know what you drive, so it would be a surprise to them. Make them walk around for a while and get nervous. They'd be totally ambushed. Assuming no one was getting in/out of their cars while you are doing this.

Incorporate some water boarding? EW, please let us know how this develops. I'm going to want to live vicariously through you!!

SUV would be better than the trunk unless you have one of the ones where the back seat folds down.

I can't imagine explaining that one to the cops if you got pulled over!!

Double post. Oops.

You need to think it through step by step lest you overlook potential pitfalls to the scenario. The simplest things like high heels and a set of stairs can have unintended consequences that may or may not add to the scenario. Restraints, gags, blindfolds all need to be prepped in advance with a plan on when and where to use it. Also, if this is a rape/kidnap scenario, the issue of condom use will come into play. If you are doing something that realistic, going BB has to enter the equation b/c if art is imitating life, then using condoms during a forced sex scenario is highly unrealistic.

awww fuck i wanna do something like this....

ive got plenty of badass materials too - bbgun prop, duct tape ball, handcuffs, my balaclava mask

great...now i got another roleplay bucketlist entry.

If BB enters the equation, it must be with someone that you know quite well. How do you insure d/d free?

I've performed exactly two kidnapping scenes. I thoroughly enjoyed the theatrics and ambitious nature of it all, but such elaborate roleplay is very time intensive and for that reason I don't really put them out there as part of my regular menu. For the right party though, of course! You must have one very lucky pet, Elizabeth

My favorite was performed at a pretty busy casino, where I seduced my man away from the tables with some super spicy flirtation and a few drinks, which of course elicited an invite up to his room. Once I got there, the tables turned quickly and he found himself gagged and bound to his bed, totally at my mercy. After rifling around through his things for any valuables and finding nothing, I tortured him until he gave me the combination to the room safe, where he kept a little white envelope full of his "gambling money" lol. He then watched helplessly as I ordered room service, enjoyed a few glasses of champagne. Then, I tossed him his handcuff keys and left.

The second was a little more public, and I suppose after reading other people's opinions on this thread, a little more controversial. I had spotted my prey at a busy coffee shop in the city, and began to hunt him, following him as he walked to a less populated section of the neighborhood. After a few turns, he began to realize that he was being tailed, and I began to close in as he turned down various streets to lose me. Eventually, he turned down the wrong alley, and there was no one ther but him and me. He stopped in a doorway and turned to confront me. A few words were exchanged, but I was calm, and that calm began to scare him - I knew I had him beat. Just as he was ready to run off, my hidden accomplice (and real life girlfriend, but whatever) burst out of the doorway behind him with a chloroform rag. He dropped, and between the two of us, we dragged him inside. Of course, a thorough mindfuck followed.

I certainly wouldn't try that last one again, but I was young and reckless and it was fun I don't know what would have happened if anyone had seen us!

~Mme X~