Seeking Advice....

I was robbed tonight. I went to a provider's incall location at a moderate to nice hotel and when contacted by the agency or provider I was told to go up to the 7th floor. Upon arrival at that floor, I was greeted by a rather large male (offensive lineman type) who asked me if I was there to see X and I said yes. He said I was to pay him right then and that she was in room Y. I did so as I had seen this provider about 6 months ago. So I give him the money and go to the room and knock on the door and the provider lets me in. We greet each other for a minute or two then she asks for the donation. I told her I paid her security guard...that's who I thought it was....and she took extreme exception to that. So I said hold on and I called the contact number and told that person what happened and they asked to speak to the provider so I gave her my phone. After she spoke with them, she got really mad and threw the phone. I retrieved the phone and the male at the other end by now (it had been a female) told me that she owed them some money and that I had to work it out with her. Well, she was going ballistic by now and started hitting, scratching and cussing me and screaming and asked me to leave. Well, I was ready to go and wasn't sure exactly what to do, so I just left and nervously exited the hotel. Not exactly sure what happened, but I do know I am out $800 for the two hours I paid. Do I have any options? I guess I am just fucked (figuratively speaking....).

Holy freakin shit!!! I say count your blessings you got out alive , sooo sorry that happened!!!! Im not familiar with how agencys work but i did want to say im really sorry that happened and perhaps choose an indepent next time and you get the room,
again, im sooo sorry as i know that sucks big time. xoxox

U could post an alert? But that's totally up to you. Other dudes probably experienced this too but were to fearful to post on it, you might see a lot of "this happened to me too".......or you can be the first to bring it to the forefront.

This is the reason I can't stand agencies.....this happened to me once and only once with one.

Hi LAP. I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you. The agency robbed you and you should call them out so they don't get any more ECCIE clients. Nothing else I can see to do about it.

Post an alert that is a safety issue dude. Sorry that happened but why let it happen to anyone else.

Please OUT her / agency. That is not right. People shouldn't treat people like that. I am very sorry that this happened to you. It is weird that you saw her 6 months ago and everything was fine and dandy then and now this. Stay safe hun. It could have been worse!

You need to totally out the agency, that is NOT cool at all. I am so sorry this happend to you. Indy's might be something you should try to stick with.

a lesson we all have to go thru,It sucks ,not much you can do,like the others said make it your place to warn others

I'm glad to see compassionate posters here. That was a bad experience to be sure, I'm sorry it happened. I note that you are asking for forward-advice, not critiques. So far, that seems to be what you are receiving. Good.

Depending on the phone number you were using, Naomi's advice seems best for all of the community. The agency does need to be revealed; however, if you were using your actual phone, name, and phone number, I would think long and hard before doing it. Hopefully, you were using a hobby phone and an alias in which case you would enjoy some form of anonymity as you outed these cretins.

It's been the experience of many in this hobby that expensive lessons learned of this nature usually pay themselves back in the future as better decisions are made and even more costly situations are avoided using the wisdom gleaned. So take heart and hobby on.

I agree with the others. You need to out the agency and post the alert in the appropriate forum.

Not only on this board, but on every other board you can find.

If she owes them money (and you have no way to know if this is true or just bullshit), then it's between them. You shouldn't get drawn into it.

But your only friend here is the alert.

Another reason I don't use agencies. You can't trust those who run them.

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Another reason I don't use agencies. You can't trust those who run them. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Middle men make messes.

It's one thing to lose your money but it's another thing to be physically abused. I really hope that you post an alert, link to this girl's/agency's ad so noone else will have to go through what you went through. It's not only the agencies fault. That girl had no right to verbally and physically abuse you.

so true Naomi, plus if she wigged out that bad on him for no reason & should someone have overheard & alerted security or whoever im sure she would have said he was assaulting her and guess who would have went down.
geeze thats just scary.

Lap good to see ya. mmm No options, forget it. move on to others. maybe post a warning about the agency in the right area.

I'd out the provider for sure. As for the agency, I'd call them and see if they can give you "one on the house". I'd let the agency know that they could be outed as well with the potential to lose clients. Finally, this is one reason I stray away from agencies. I stick with independents and am leery of anyone who uses a driver or other people accompanying them on a date.