For future references ladies I do not get on EC everyday like some. So if you send me a PM on here and I don't respond then don't say I'm avoiding your reference, I just didn't see it. Also, I need to know more than just their handle...I need to know when and where they last seen me. Every girl does references her own way. I prefer the girl to call me...and if I'm not working sometimes my phone is off. Sorry that's just how I am. Sometimes I will not check my hobby phone or EC account for days. That's how I relax and turn off the hobby life. How do you ladies prefer to do your references? What makes it easier for you? I'm 10000% reference friendly to any girl that I know doesn't have a whimp...soooooo ya