Provider works at my job

I am totally shocked that a provider I tried to make an appointment with now works at my job. She does not know who I am but I know who she is. I tried to find her pics on eccie and p411 but it was taken down. I don't want to mention her name to prevent any embarrassment. But, I can't believe how beautiful she is though. I really wish our appointment would have fell through. I want to make another appointment but don't know if it would be appropriate. Maybe, it was fate that our appointment didn't go as planned.

You need to let it drop, this gal is trying to start a new life and career. As a gentlemen ,I hope you are , let it go.

I agree.

That said, I am fairly certain that there is a provider who works where I work as well and, I won't lie, I've been tempted to schedule. But I just can't.

No good can come from pressing anything hobby related with her. Maybe she's retired from providing. Maybe she's trying to make some extra money on the side. Maybe you're mistaken. Regardless, it's too big a risk for both of you to try for an appointment with her.

Instead, keep her secret. If you're really interested, ask her out in the civilian world and see if she's game. Just never bring up the provider thing.

Good for her.

Don't F- it up for her.

I want to make another appointment but don't know if it would be appropriate. Originally Posted by Shrewd

It would not.

It is almost certainly best for you and best for her that you never mention it or give her any reason to believe that you recognize her from any escort site.

IMHO

I agree with the above...but just think of all the fantasies you can have about her in the work place. Just don't play them out and cross the line. ��

LEAVE HER ALONE! Don't fuck it up for her! Thank you!!

Its real simple. You are wrong. She is not a provider. She may look like someone who's picture you have seen but it is not her. Until you accept that, do not go near her or talk to her. Any other action could result in a sexual harassment charge against you.

Ditto. I have tried to help several ladies move on to other careers in tech, real estate, trading etc. Not everyone wants to be in the this business until they are ninety. Gather your nest egg and move on ladies. Please leave the lady alone Shrewd. Thanks

A lot of providers either have second jobs or just provide for additional income. The best thing you could do for her is take everyone's advice here; let it go. Best not try to mix her business with your pleasure.

I'm fairly certain that trying to soliciting sex from one of your co-workers is probably covered in your company's Sexual Harassment Policy, and frowned upon.

Sooo you make a thread about it which ends up being pointless? Mmmk

Ask her out for some Starbucks

I am SO with Crunchtime on this one. Please let it drop.