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One horror story after another, I get tired of hearing it over and over.
Why? Why?

It's exciting to have someone rip you off?
It's exciting to have a p pull a gun on you?
Is it the bait and switch?
Being the first one to find the golden treasure?

At the risk of your life, family and livelihood ?

I just don't get it. Think with your big head. If something doesn't seem right, even up to the last moment, don't do it. Girls and guys. I would much rather make up on the back end than put myself in jeprody.

So here's my semi-annual WTF are you thinking post? I fear for the men that I know for what is planned on the low-end high risk side. This is in no effort to gain business, would love to see you, but not the point.

We govern and decide what and who is reputable and respectable. All women know this is one of the boards that is a men's board, ok with demeaning women.

In conclusion, if you have to be a prick to get pussy, that clearly explains why you are not.

I implore those on board with this to engage in conversation. Anyone besides me willing to be the black sheep?

I can contribute this Ari.....Being a reputable and respectful lady myself, for years I have witnessed gentlemen that think because they are paying the lowest rate possible they are getting the best deal; I'll never understand that one. Consider why the rates are soooo low.

Its hit and miss, mostly miss, i guess sometimes, the $ is wat makes decisions for us, i now only see gals from bp i know, never anyone i dont know, i hear too many horror stories

While I agree that BP is not the safest option, everything Ari said could be attributed to engaging in illegal activity in general.

We have a plethora of posts that some providers in Wichita who are VERIFIED on Eccie and were reputable have jacked folks. Some of them had great reviews and the people here were suckered into seeing them, some still try it, even though the experiences are posted. Not everyone gets to read them.

Also, sometimes the drama gets so bad that people don't trust certain posters, think that people are manipulating the market for their own gain and tanking other girls' business.

Also, even good girls get turned. It happens.

If you want to be totally safe, don't be a monger. You risk everything every time. It's about probability.

It's about minimizing, not about eliminating risk. These decisions are not calculated in terms of, "gee, I want to get myself busted." They are made in the heat of the moment, sometimes intoxicated, sometimes in a lonely emotional state, and sometimes by folks who should know better - there are many many posts to that effect. They are calculated risks, which is what happens why anyone engages in activity that may be illegal. While I note that money is only exchanged for time... you get the point.

If you want to be safer, follow Ari's advice certainly. But understand that just because someone is rated well on ECCIE DOES NOT mean they are always 100% reliable, secure or safe.

ALWAYS be cautious, whether seeing someone here or not. And... always pass along bad experiences to the rest of us. That is the point here. Knowledge is power.



Happy Friday Ari, et al.

Well said Jack.... I must agree.

+1

Much like my recipe for decision making.

Gather, research, cross-reference, weigh the risk, decide if you can deal with the consequences and add a dash of intuition.

+1

Much like my recipe for decision making.

Gather, research, cross-reference, weigh the risk, decide if you can deal with the consequences and add a dash of intuition. Originally Posted by Ari816

and... call Ari when in KC

If she wants to rob you, apparently it might be your energy... or soul... lol