When I first heard of them, I was kinda like "Whoa, not for me". Never the less on a different forum I saw some guys discussing them. I don't want to be harsh but I kind of thought of them as a losers item. Yes I realize they are effectively not different from a woman with a vibrator. I don't mean to offend, just kinda how I feel, and in the end what does my or anyones opinion matter about about anyone elses sex lives.
But after getting fleeced a few months ago by a provider I thought I knew and trusted. And having to walk away from another that insisted on CBJ ( I literally wouldn't take a cbj from scarlett Johnansen )I am seriously starting to reconsider. They sure as hell beat taking a 400$ flogging or suffering YET. ANOTHER. LETDOWN.
And a cbj and a flesh light have something in common, in both cases your not actually having sex with another human being. Only simulating it. and chances are, the fleshlight will be more sensitive to your needs.