Go to lunch with me to prove you are not a cop?

I got a message from a cautious hobbyist who would like to set up an appointment with me, but would like to meet me at a restaurant (on him) for him to assess that I'm are not law enforcement.

Girls would you do this? Would you go to lunch/dinner with someone to interview you for a free meal?
Guys would you ask a girl to do this?
What is wrong with this request?

Sounds like that guy is a huge pussy. Tell him to man up and just ride you.

Would love girls to do that, I doubt many would do it though.

Just because I / you bring hand cuffs to lunch. Does that make me (or you) LE?

LMAO

This isn't lets make a deal.

I'm always open to lunch/dinner dates. Of course, I'm on the clock as soon as my foot crosses the threshold. I'll give him the "paranoid pussy fucktard" discount, though. You know, because I'm a sweetheart like that

Food made me fat, I'd rather have the cash. Now if he wants to meet at the gym then we would have a deal. Otherwise it's "Fuck you, Pay me".

I know a girl that got arrested at a night club when some undercover cops came in, she sat with them and one asked her for a handjob, so she shook his hand and said this is all the handjob you will get., it was on a auto tape so there wasn't any proof of what she shook. They arrested her right then and there.
So what kind of questions over lunch/dinner can get you in trouble?
So no, I will not put myself in that situation.

But if you want to book an hour or two with me at my full rates, than yes I will let you interview me and I will get you off telling you all my dirty secret's~
But I must interview you first to confirm that it isn't a trap.

I know a girl that got arrested at a night club when some undercover cops came in, she sat with them and one asked her for a handjob, so she shook his hand and said this is all the handjob you will get., it was on a auto tape so there wasn't any proof of what she shook. They arrested her right then and there.
So what kind of questions over lunch/dinner can get you in trouble?
So no, I will not put myself in that situation.

But if you want to book an hour or two with me at my full rates, than yes I will let you interview me and I will get you off telling you all my dirty secret's~
But I must interview you first to confirm that it isn't a trap. Originally Posted by Kinky Carrie

In your case ( IMHO ) It would not be necessary for me a 6+ member of the board to request such. However in the reverse situation I would totally ask a lady to meet me in public for a lunch date and of course I would not be dumb enough to try the touch me and I will touch you BS. in public on the lunch date. If you can't feel each other out in 1 hour for lunch ( without touching each other ) then neither of you are horny or smart!!! LOLOLOL

I had someone request this of me recently. We were having difficulty getting the screening back on time... Wonder if it's the same person?

I don't offer meet and greets because number one, they prove nothing. Cops eat lunch, too. Two, I'm running a business... so I have to leave my schedule open for appointments. If I commit to lunch but then get a request for an appointment, I'm losing money.

Police can still meet you publicly

i've done the let's meet at a bar thing. but only with a bp find. worked well once. mostly get no's.
i wouldn't dream of it with a board broad. (at least as a screening. could be fun as part of an extended date)
an early hobby 'date' wanted a meet and greet in the hotel lobby. the elevator ride up was fun.

I had someone request this of me recently. We were having difficulty getting the screening back on time... Wonder if it's the same person?

I don't offer meet and greets because number one, they prove nothing. Cops eat lunch, too. Two, I'm running a business... so I have to leave my schedule open for appointments. If I commit to lunch but then get a request for an appointment, I'm losing money. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Our date was over dinner and drinks first, then we went back to your room and fucked then got in the jacuzzi tub and cleaned up. But I also was prescreened and I paid for the two hour fee.

I also been on about five different dinner dates with other providers none seemed to have a problem with it, most liked it.

When I was new on ECCIE, a lady asked me to meet her in the parking lot of a restaurant close to her incall so she could "get a look at me." Not sure what she was looking for, but I guess I "passed" because the meet was short, and we moved on to her incall.

Our date was over dinner and drinks first, then we went back to your room and fucked then got in the jacuzzi tub and cleaned up. But I also was prescreened and I paid for the two hour fee.

I also been on about five different dinner dates with other providers none seemed to have a problem with it, most liked it. Originally Posted by Worldtravler

Right, but I wasn't there to 'screen' you. Dinner was a part of our hobby date. I do that sort of thing all the time… It is fun! But it's also a lot different than someone who just wants to meet to hang out, with no compensation at all.

Dinner being included in a hobby date is such a frequent request that I now have a dinner package. Usually BCD before dinner, dinner and then BCD afterwards... It works out especially well for the older hobbyist, since dinner allows an opportunity for a recoup period, making round two possible.

meet&greet dosent't prove someone isn't LE
Why does he not provide work vérification?
Depending on each state LE can go really far to mislead ladies he isn't LE
Be careful!
VJ

If I set up a dinner date, do I call the order in ahead of time so none of my time is wasted waiting on food to be prepared?