Aversion to one's own fluids

To clarify, I'm not afraid per se but sperm, coming in contact with my own spermmakes my skin crawl. Yeah, I masturbate. I also make sure when I feel a nut coming on to grab a bunch of wetnaps or do it in a nice warm running shower in the morning. Blowjobs are another matter. Obviously I'm getting bare ones, but if I allow myself to finish in her mouth I don't wanna kiss her for the rest of the Appointment. I don't wanna snowball. Even if she swallows. I need to see her gargle or brush her teeth. I know it's a mental block on my end. It's the idea that is alive and swimming in that pool of liquid.

Besides eating my own sperm how would one get over this?

You aren't alone. This is very common. I have been asked to jump out of bed immediately after the happiness tonsil bath and do a Listerine/Crest commercial.

Totally up to the gent as to how this is handled, but please don't make providers feel like Bubonic Plague rats for swallowing YOUR totally natural bodily emulsion. Be polite when asking us to go gargle/brush. Might want to save CIM until the end of the appointment.

Do you eat pussy, my dear? Her fluid excitement isn't much different biologically, ya know, still a sexual side dish. (Main entree for some. ) Psychologically speaking, you probably aren't going to find an effective solution, no matter how much advice is given. You have to decide what you can tolerate, and not worry henceforth. It isn't a big deal to we ladies.

I know what you mean. I don't like to taste myself either.

I refuse to kiss a girl after I give her a Sanchez. Does that count?

I generally avoid full on self jizz tasting, but in my experience if you DFK when she comes up for air mid-blow job, when she goes back to work there is a renewed vigor. I usually offer a post pussy eating taste to her as well. This is only with a select few, not your run of the mill agency girl.

If you take the mid BJ break and kiss chances are you kissed your own precum. Shit happens. Want to get over it, taste it. Is it worse than getting squirted in the face by a squirter? I don't think so. At least it isn't pee.

This is a tough one. My own sometimes is a turn off for dfk preclude to second round but more so when you smell some one else's who sprayed on the tits, hair and the belly an hour before you showed up and they claim they took a bath. Well choices as usual. Luckily my olfactory lobes are like a serpent so I manage the risk with maturity. Great discussion though. Manage as you go. But they individuals I meet they do their best to rinse, but...

OP, if you're that spermaphobic, what lie do you tell yourself about all the clients who left right before you got there?

You said you DFK, just not after your blow job. Well, that just means your tasting the prior guys jizz. These chicks don't brush or garle between appointments. Hell, 99% of them think wiping with a baby wipe is good hygene. Good luck finding ones that will actually shower between appointments.

That's a mighty big glass house you live in

OP, if you're that spermaphobic, what lie do you tell yourself about all the clients who left right before you got there?
Originally Posted by citizen44

She's low volume, only sees a few clients a week and by-god, never 2 in the same day!

OP, if you're that spermaphobic, what lie do you tell yourself about all the clients who left right before you got there?

You said you DFK, just not after your blow job. Well, that just means your tasting the prior guys jizz. These chicks don't brush or garle between appointments. Hell, 99% of them think wiping with a baby wipe is good hygene. Good luck finding ones that will actually shower between appointments.

That's a mighty big glass house you live in Originally Posted by citizen44

Maybe he doesn't have a problem with other guy's cum, just his own.

I would like to know how the OP would react if monkeys @ the zoo flung poop @ him

I don't really have any advice for you either.

For me, fluids have been an age/maturity thing. For instance, when I was younger, I may have had more of an issue with my own and anyone else's coming too close to me. I remember I had a bf when I was 18 who would love to kiss me after he had just gone down and it would freak me out way too much.

I had another bf who wanted to snowball and loved it, but that also freaked me out at the time.

Now, not at all. It is totally hot to me to kiss someone after they have just been down on me, and vice versa. I also have a bit of a cum fetish in my personal life, in terms of enjoying to be cum on, etc etc.

So, I don't know if it will be the same for you. Maybe try and understand the cause of what turns you off; what about it specifically does, and you will start to understand how to overcome the issue.

Good luck.

Good luck finding ones that will actually shower between appointments.
Originally Posted by citizen44

Really? I'll have to firmly disagree with this.

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For instance, when I was younger, I may have had more of an issue with my own and anyone else's coming too close to me. I remember I had a bf when I was 18 who would love to kiss me after he had just gone down and it would freak me out way too much.
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