Now, on the other hand, I have had the delightful experience of spending some time with about 5 providers from ECCIE. I will say that each and every time I left happy, content, feeling good and positive, had a great (fantastic) sensual experience, and just left feeling good about life. I think of the provider experience as (in theory) being cold, but I have found just the opposite. I think that here is the deal: Yes, one can argue that the provider experience has a cold component to it: they want our money, we want their bodies. But here's the most important thing that I missed and is my lesson: when that door closes, and it's just the two of you in that room, all that BS about money and bodies is understood and it goes away, it just disappears and stays on the outside of that door. What is inside is a room with two people, both just trying to have a nice time acknowledging that we are all the same when that door closes. I have had more emotional intimacy and friendship and good open and honest communication with so called "providers" than I ever did even come close to with the sugar baby experience. When I need a friend and a companion and to spend time away from this crazy world and have a great wonderful, joy filled romp of passionate bliss I'm sticking with one of the fine and wonderful women I have had the good fortune of meeting on ECCIE. As an odd coincidence my horoscope today (which I read for entertainment only) said to take a broader view and that sometimes the things that make you happy are right in front of you. I agree. Thanks ladies - you bring joy and happiness and fun and frolic to our lives, and I for one greatly appreciate it! Peace.

