GET OVER IT!!!!

Yes, I realize its been a long week working out of town, traveling and some sleep deprivation may be involved and I'll probably get in more than one provider's "dog house" by saying this BUT . . .

Just why the hell do we have providers with the attitude that a "not so glowing" review has to be defended?

and

Just how the hell are providers defending information contained in "The Rest of the Story" and not in the public portions of the review?

Reviews are one hobbyiest's opinion of what occurred during a session and when another hobbyiest is doing research about seeing the said provider, the entire work of reviews, among other items have to be taken into account. Nobody is on their game 100% of the time.

I'll climb down of the soap box now. Maybe I woke up this morning with my shorts in a knot. . . .

Yes, I realize its been a long week working out of town, traveling and some sleep deprivation may be involved and I'll probably get in more than one provider's "dog house" by saying this BUT . . .

Just why the hell do we have providers with the attitude that a "not so glowing" review has to be defended?

and

Just how the hell are providers defending information contained in "The Rest of the Story" and not in the public portions of the review?

Reviews are one hobbyiest's opinion of what occurred during a session and when another hobbyiest is doing research about seeing the said provider, the entire work of reviews, among other items have to be taken into account. Nobody is on their game 100% of the time.

I'll climb down of the soap box now. Maybe I woke up this morning with my shorts in a knot. . . . Originally Posted by arklookn4lovn

+1

++++1

Every provider has the right to defend a review that they feel is unfair. The forum rules even say ladies should use coed to do so. If it bothers you, it's very simple to keep your mouse from clicking on it. Read it or don't. The fact that it's there hurts no one and allows the provider to vent her frustrations. Providers deal with enough demands, no shows, screening difficulties, disrespectful emails, haggling, bbfs requests, degradation, legal risks, crazy people, calls at 3am, beggars, complaining, bad hygiene and less than pleasant affairs that we deserve at least that when we're criticized.

But if you disagree, then don't read it. Im not defending either Sassy's review or her rebuttal, but providers feel at least a little better when their side is posted as well.

If unworthy Confusian may address august ranter, to which ladys defense is referred, the most recent, or the one honorable gentleman supported? Do be careful dismounting, soapbox appear to have loose board.

Ali, Giz and Ricochet are right on target! Like Giz, if I'd even had any kind of thought it was you, my post wouldn't have appeared to be helpful, but questioning. Anyone who's seen you has to know there's more to the story that what was posted!


Good luck with shorts.

Lily thank you I appreciate it. As far as defending myself. Well you know I have to work twice as hard as any other provider on here to make up for my past mistakes. To prove myself worthy of this hobby . So yep a bad review sucks right about now especially when I have had some many good positive ones which no one seems to notice.

Lily you are right I did feel better after posting the rebuttal. At least my side is out there for those care to read it.

Chan thanks your right those who know me know the truth and thats really all that matters.

Everyone be safe this weekend

And once again thank you for your suport

No thanks necessary. Inquisitions made merely to ascertain nature of indignation. Chan is in no position to support or defend. Notion of fair play require that same behavior does not make one man saint and another man sinner.

Lily thank you I appreciate it. As far as defending myself. Well you know I have to work twice as hard as any other provider on here to make up for my past mistakes. To prove myself worthy of this hobby . So yep a bad review sucks right about now especially when I have had some many good positive ones which no one seems to notice.

I cared enough to post a response I care enough to listen to input. Do I think the review was honest no nor do I think its accurate no and I have asked the moderators to take a closer look at it .

It was a bad review then I learn from it and go on if its not then thats for the mods to deal with.

Lily you are right I did feel after posting the rebuttal. At least my side is out there for those care to read it

Chan thanks your right those who know me know the truth and thats really all that matters.

Everyone be safe this weekend

And once again thank you for your suport Originally Posted by mssassy

Huh? Should I go take a nap and cum back? I'm confused.

Huh? Should I go take a nap and cum back? I'm confused. Originally Posted by MrGiz

Hm.

Makes 2 of us.

Na Nite!

Wait for meeeee....

* Crawls Into Bed * lol

Ark made a comment on the fact that I rebuttal a bad review (thread in coed) hiney agreed , Lily basically said that a provider feels better after defending herself against a bad review. Chan made a comment in support of what Lily said (basically) I made a comment thanking Lily and Chan and explained why I rebuttal the bad review to start with. I think I got all that right.

At least I hope so.

I was wondering why I was mentioned... but I took a nap, woke up... and I think I figured out what the bold text was all about.
... btw... it was nice having you join me, Dreams!

There are often two sides to a story, so I don't mind the rebuttals in the coed section. If you are interested in the situation and care to investigate further, you can always take into account things like the past reviews of the provider and by the hobbyist, and the posting styles of the provider and hobbyist, and make your own best guess as to whether the negative review was fair and whether it was on a subject that matters to you.

Every provider has the right to defend a review that they feel is unfair. The forum rules even say ladies should use coed to do so. If it bothers you, it's very simple to keep your mouse from clicking on it. Read it or don't. The fact that it's there hurts no one and allows the provider to vent her frustrations. Providers deal with enough demands, no shows, screening difficulties, disrespectful emails, haggling, bbfs requests, degradation, legal risks, crazy people, calls at 3am, beggars, complaining, bad hygiene and less than pleasant affairs that we deserve at least that when we're criticized.

But if you disagree, then don't read it. Im not defending either Sassy's review or her rebuttal, but providers feel at least a little better when their side is posted as well. Originally Posted by Lily Blair

I absolutely must agree with Lily here. Coed discussions IS the place we ENCOURAGE providers to come to refute inaccuracies or outright lies in the public portions of their reviews.

Huck

I was wondering why I was mentioned... but I took a nap, woke up... and I think I figured out what the bold text was all about.
... btw... it was nice having you join me, Dreams! Originally Posted by MrGiz

Yes what a great nap, I just woke up not long ago myself, rolled over and dang... look what we have here... No longer confuzzed.

ha ha

Many pardons, illustrious gentlement merely caught in quote.

I was wondering why I was mentioned... but I took a nap, woke up... and I think I figured out what the bold text was all about.
... btw... it was nice having you join me, Dreams! Originally Posted by MrGiz