Psychic Orgasm - Psycholagny

NinaBrooke's Avatar
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psycholagny

"Psycholagny is a sexual term that refers to the ability to reach or achieve orgasm without any physical stimulation of the genitalia, usually achieved through mental stimulation or fantasy alone. Also referred to as a "psychic orgasm" [1][2]."

Has anyone else ever practiced or meditated on this? For me sometimes physical contact is absolutely not necessary to achieve an orgasm. Recently i started having cybersex with a friend of mine and we have been discussing this - which i thought was so special to me - and he referred me to this term.
Camille's Avatar
Only when sleeping...but it's somewhat frequent. Never when awake. I must not be relaxed enough to go deeply enough into the fantasy when awake

I will either wake up after the orgasm (great) or right before it (not so great) and be frustrated lol.
C x
Rudyard K's Avatar
I will either wake up after the orgasm (great) or right before it (not so great) and be frustrated Originally Posted by Camille
I hate that when it happens when I'm on a date.
Sisyphus's Avatar
Only when sleeping...but it's somewhat frequent. Never when awake. I must not be relaxed enough to go deeply enough into the fantasy when awake

I will either wake up after the orgasm (great) or right before it (not so great) and be frustrated lol.
C x Originally Posted by Camille
Ding, ding, ding! Winner, winner...chicken dinner!!

I was waiting for the "synonym" section of the definition. The part where it said...see also, "wet dream"...
Valerie's Avatar
I'm like Camille on this one, it happens to me when I'm dreaming sometimes, and I'll wake up from it....Wish I could wake up like that everyday!
NinaBrooke's Avatar
Interesting, when i have a so called "wet dream" it does not happen that i have an orgasm i am always short before it and it is kind of annoying. But when awake i am capable of orgasming without touching myself. Not on every occassion but i have this intense connection with a man sexually at the moment that it is possible for me. And of course fantazising too. Especially interesting when you sit in an airplane antizipating a hot date :-) (lol). I am practising a lot of sex magical rituals so it comes easy after a while :-). And i am generally a person very much intrigued by visuals or voice or fantasy talk. I don`t necessarily need the physical contact for sexual pleasure, which can be quite interesting when you practice semen retention with a man. (Kundalini Yoga)
Only when sleeping...but it's somewhat frequent. Never when awake. I must not be relaxed enough to go deeply enough into the fantasy when awake

I will either wake up after the orgasm (great) or right before it (not so great) and be frustrated lol.
C x Originally Posted by Camille
I'm like Camille on this one, it happens to me when I'm dreaming sometimes, and I'll wake up from it....Wish I could wake up like that everyday! Originally Posted by Valerie
Must be an English bird thing.
Camille's Avatar
When I'm awake (and alone) and need a little visual help getting along, the fastest way for me to get there is watching girl on girl. When I'm sleeping, I always dream hetro. What does that mean Nina? Probably that I'm just watching bad porn lol

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Camille's Avatar
Ding, ding, ding! Winner, winner...chicken dinner!!

I was waiting for the "synonym" section of the definition. The part where it said...see also, "wet dream"... Originally Posted by Sisyphus
Haha..yep! There ain't much a man can do that a woman can't lol

Must be an English bird thing. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
Or maybe were just not as shy talking about it

C xxx
Camille's Avatar
I hate that when it happens when I'm on a date. Originally Posted by Rudyard K
Hahahaha....I'm not buying that Rudy....but nice try

C x
NinaBrooke's Avatar
When I'm awake (and alone) and need a little visual help getting along, the fastest way for me to get there is watching girl on girl. When I'm sleeping, I always dream hetro. What does that mean Nina? Probably that I'm just watching bad porn lol

C x Originally Posted by Camille
hehehehehehe, i don`t know. I can only guess because dreams are more like our real lives? I am into cybersex lately. I have a long distant friend who i can not see so often and we have the best rituals online. Its amazing. I am highly visual ;-) and energetical. I think cybersex is the new future ;-) for just fun and exploring consciousness.
Eccie Addict's Avatar
Interesting, when i have a so called "wet dream" it does not happen that i have an orgasm i am always short before it and it is kind of annoying. But when awake i am capable of orgasming without touching myself. Not on every occassion but i have this intense connection with a man sexually at the moment that it is possible for me. And of course fantazising too. Especially interesting when you sit in an airplane antizipating a hot date :-) (lol). I am practising a lot of sex magical rituals so it comes easy after a while :-). And i am generally a person very much intrigued by visuals or voice or fantasy talk. I don`t necessarily need the physical contact for sexual pleasure, which can be quite interesting when you practice semen retention with a man. (Kundalini Yoga) Originally Posted by ninasastri
semen retention with a man. (Kundalini Yoga)

What is that?
NinaBrooke's Avatar
semen retention with a man. (Kundalini Yoga)

What is that? Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
Its a yoga technique to preserve energies that get exhausted due to orgasm. Its to learn how to orgasm without loosing sperm. While i am critical on the fluid stuff, it allows men to have multiple orgasm similar to women, that is why "we" practice it. Its a way to heighten consciousness and meditate

wiki on that:

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[edit]Male control of ejaculation
Many Taoist practitioners link the loss of ejaculatory fluids to the loss of vital life force: where excessive fluid loss results in premature aging, disease, and general fatigue. While some Taoists contend that one should never ejaculate, others provide a specific formula to determine the maximum amount of regular ejaculations in order to maintain health.[3] The general idea is to limit the loss of fluids as much as possible to the level of your desired practice. As these sexual practices were passed down over the centuries, some practitioners have given less importance to the limiting of ejaculation. Nevertheless, the "retention of the semen" is one of the foundational tenets of Taoist sexual practice.[4]

"[7] Another method involves the Taoist to train himself to separate the impulses of ejaculation and orgasmic contraction (the contraction of the pelvic muscles that "pump" the prostate and the ejaculate). By separating these impulses, at the point of orgasm, the man can halt penetration but remain inside his partner, and forcibly clench his pelvic floor ("stunting" the initial prostate contractions), while simultaneously adopting a meditation like "intention" that these Taoists believe redirect not the physical sperm, but the life energy (jing) it contains up the back and to the center of the brain. This way the man will still have orgasm, but will not ejaculate, and most importantly will not lose his erection. This formula prescribes the man to climb a "ladder" of escalating orgasms in conjunction with the meditation like "intention", in order to cultivate and store massive amounts of "jing". If performed successfully the male should have no stagnating pain in the testes, and should have no semen in his urine, as well as the health benefits expected by practitioners[citation needed]. Those that practice this method believe that it is one of the keys to immortality."
whitechocolate's Avatar
I am trained in the use of mental imagery for use in all types of activities. For it to work best, you do need to get into an altered mental state where you are very relaxed and can focus without distraction. That is why it works best in sleep but also under hypnosis or in self induced deep relaxation states which can be easily learned. Once you can enter the altered state, you focus on one core erotic fantasy using all your senses. In my experience, women seem to have an easier time self inducing orgasm in the awake state. Being able to focus on one key fantasy in super detail is very important.
NinaBrooke's Avatar
I am trained in the use of mental imagery for use in all types of activities. For it to work best, you do need to get into an altered mental state where you are very relaxed and can focus without distraction. That is why it works best in sleep but also under hypnosis or in self induced deep relaxation states which can be easily learned. Once you can enter the altered state, you focus on one core erotic fantasy using all your senses. In my experience, women seem to have an easier time self inducing orgasm in the awake state. Being able to focus on one key fantasy in super detail is very important. Originally Posted by whitechocolate
exactly..
hey welcome like minded spirit. Altered states of consciousness is my specialty. do you know something like erotocomatose lucidity or sexual magic like orgasm control?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eroto-comatose_lucidity

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control