Kissing: Simple Word, Controversial Topic

I Looove kissing! 💋
It sends waves of warmth and tingles through my body directly to where I feel it...best

Now obvious things like hygiene aside, skill and technique are important.

But I want to hear thoughts on this topic
- why some gents don't?
- why some providers don't?

Infections that can be passed this way? Especially if your mouth goes other places then comes back to kiss
sportster872000's Avatar
With out passionate kissing it feels like she is just letting me poke at her so i will get it over with asap.

And on a side note, it seems harder for me to get at full attention these days(must be a sign in getting older), so with out making out like teenagers it just isn't what it use to be.

And i like to take their breath away with a good passionate kiss.

Damn. Now i need some soft lips to savor.
satan666's Avatar
i love to kiss it just makes the act of sex more intimate! without kissing it just is mechanical and boring makes me feel like im not wanted there and ruins the whole experience!

if seen that a provider does not offer lfk/dfk in her menu generally i am going to pass and find one more suited for my taste.

kissing is something i love to do and am very good at. imo if it is not included in the act of sex then its not going to be a very enjoyable sexual encounter!
Phantom's Avatar
This is a great topic and it has personal relevance for me. I find that as I get older it becomes more difficult "to come to attention" but starting with some kissing and/or cuddling often has a significant positive impact. I've struggled finding a provider who is willing to open up to that type of foreplay. So I'll be interested to hear the concerns associated with kissing and cuddling and possibly find a lady who is genuinely into providing that experience.
wildcat88's Avatar
Imo, kissing is just about the most intimate thing two people can do. The number of nerve endings in the mouth, tongue and lips is phenomenal. I have had the good fortune to be with a number of providers who are good kissers, but none can surpass Sandra Dee
sportster872000's Avatar
Wow the ladies are quiet about this topic. So in the words of Crash Davis,
"Well, I believe in the soul, the cock, the pussy, the small of a woman's back, the hanging curve ball, high fiber, good scotch, that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent, overrated crap. I believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a constitutional amendment outlawing Astroturf and the designated hitter. I believe in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days."
Kissing can either make or break a situation. I love nibbling or sucking on someone's bottom lip. Too much tongue action or saliva can totally kill it for me though, nothing is worse than having saliva dripping off your chin. I love to have my neck kissed & the sides of my stomach, it sends jolts of excitement & anticipation through my body. Bad breath is a major turn off. Never go ass to mouth or ass to vagina. I doesn't matter if I washed my bottom before a gent sees me, you carry a different bacteria in that vicinity than what you do in your genitals. I love kissing a guy after he goes down on me because I like the way I taste, lol! Oh, lip products. I never wear colored lip glosses or lip sticks (unless requested) because it can get messy. But something sheer with a bit of flavor makes kissing a bit more exciting.
I love kissing a guy after he goes down on me because I like the way I taste... Originally Posted by Kat VonDee
One of my favorite things a lady can do....
Kissing can either make or break a situation.
I love nibbling or sucking on someone's bottom lip.
I love to have my neck kissed & the sides of my stomach...
...something sheer with a bit of flavor makes kissing a bit more exciting. Originally Posted by Kat VonDee
Damn, Kat! I need to make a return visit... SOON!!
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
Kissing:
The best way to shut a guy up.


Seriously though;
You're doing it right when you can feel a smile during the kiss.

I quite enjoy collecting smiles.
StaceyMay's Avatar
Passionate kissing leads to pure bliss for me. I don't typically kiss first but if you kiss me, I'm kissing you back. UC you know you can collect plenty of smiles from me.
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
Ah Stacey,
Long
Deep
Slow
Passionately

And when I see the smile in your eyes, my lips will wander elsewhere and I smile as well. Then, with a nibble here and a nibble there, smiles get contagious.
No kissing is like being married and no sex, that’s why we all line up to meet you lovely girls. “GFE” always looking for this tag when reading profiles.
When I see limited GFE I take it means no kissing.
PSE I think wow that’s going to be a great experience.
I have a difficult time getting in the mood and might not even orgasm if there is no kissing. Obviously I respect my gents' wishes, but kissing is very important to me. GFE all the way!!
Audrey Astor's Avatar
I love kissing, and find it difficult to get in the mood without it. As another poster mentioned, it feels 3G without it, and I almost get a little offended.

Kat is right in that poor dental hygiene or bad breath, slobbering is a turn off. There is an art to good kissing.

I love to kiss the inner thighs and hips, and I love that done in return as well.

Happy kissing!
I have a really hard time getting hard if i am not getring kissed.