Sexual harassment...

  • ndark
  • 10-16-2017, 03:03 PM
Ok ladies, how have you dealt with it? Really.
BBWDeAnna's Avatar
On second thought....i wont kill the thread before it gets going ..also it will test a theory

Good post considering recent events..we would like to think if in a real world setting..grievances are filed..
  • ndark
  • 10-16-2017, 07:38 PM
Thanks, DeAnna! And to you I say in my best Homer Simpson voice, "Mmmmmmmm, DeAnna!"
BBWDeAnna's Avatar
Lmao..who doesn't love the simpsons honestly ... unfortunately to in regards to sexual harassment ..in the real world..women often dont speak up for a variety reason..all of which are not always the guys fault (dare i say some women like the attention they receive)..but often when it is spoke up against its not met with the results intended
How would an escort know when she's being sexually harassed? Oh, is that when the guy doesn't pay?

I've dealt with that in the past though, in a real life job. It was annoying because the interest wasn't reciprocated. I just ignored it. I could have made a big issue out of it, but I didn't.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
Ok ladies, how have you dealt with it? Really. Originally Posted by ndark
I'm assuming this is streaming from the new hot topic of the week on social media. Honestly, I ignore it. I have better things to do than raising a stink about some asshole catcalling me from across the street.
How would an escort know when she's being sexually harassed? Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
i have definitely been with escorts that made me feel like i was sexually harrassing them, lol
i have definitely been with escorts that made me feel like i was sexually harrassing them, lol Originally Posted by scottprestons
Well that is unfortunate. Lol
Hot Summer's Avatar
I think I get paid for this Now.Don't we all ? hahahaha ..
But really as a well endowed lady, I've been putting up with it since 6th grade. I guess you just learn to deal with it or you sue.
SylvieLining's Avatar
I actually can't believe some of the responses here.. I was under the assumption that it would be a support post, considering the severity of the issue.

Escorts can get sexually harassed and raped just like any other job. If we don't consent, and they do anyway, it's still pretty fucked up. I don't go into this job expecting to be harassed, it's not normal to brush it off. It's wrong that we are expected to just suck it up and deal with literal actual abuse?

Of course I am envious of the ability to do so, since it affected me as a toddler all the way through adolescence and even now. It's admittedly hard to deal with for me when I am held down by strangers whether I want to or not-- but all because I have a family to support, I should expect it?

I'm just saying, I respect all providers here. But I feel now that if something physically wrong happens to me, I won't be able to come here for support. I hope I'm wrong, though.
SylvieLining's Avatar
I actually can't believe some of the responses here.. I was under the assumption that it would be a support post, considering the severity of the issue.

Escorts can get sexually harassed and raped just like any other job. If we don't consent, and they do anyway, it's still pretty fucked up. I don't go into this job expecting to be harassed, it's not normal to brush it off. It's wrong that we are expected to just suck it up and deal with literal actual abuse?

Of course I am envious of the ability to do so, since it affected me as a toddler all the way through adolescence and even now. It's admittedly hard to deal with for me when I am held down by strangers whether I want to or not-- but all because I have a family to support, I should expect it?

I'm just saying, I respect all providers here. But I feel now that if something physically wrong happens to me, I won't be able to come here for support. I hope I'm wrong, though.
Hogfan69's Avatar
No, if anyone on here abuses you in any way, you need to come tell the board ASAP. People may be joking around on the subject but this board has always taken any accusations seriously and you need to spread the word to the other ladies. That's why we all build up reputations on here and vouch for each other.
But if you call yourself a "cumdumpster", then your sexual harassment doesn't count because "you don't respect yourself".

LOL 😐
"But I feel now that if something physically wrong happens to me, I won't be able to come here for support. I hope I'm wrong, though."

I think you are wrong. I have seen this board - both male and female - come down hard on people credibly accused of physically abusing a provider. This board provides a vital way of holding people accountable for their actions, something important for the safety of all of us, male and female.
Nicolefoxx1's Avatar
Arkansas board is one the best boards I have used! All of the lovely Gentleman an Ladies Are very supportive an sweet on this board.