Stop mentioning acts, gifts, ect... in your communication with a provider! I have had to turn down ten hobbyist since I arrived in Lubbock.
This is a sure fire way to get yourself and/or the provider new jewelry and a chauffeur. Not the kind you want to get either. It tends to be more exprnsive than Tiffany's and I prefer Montana Silversmith.
When you do this, you put everyone the provider has even talked to in jeopardy, if she sees you and gets the extra gifts. No one wants that PERIOD! I have a commitment to protect everyone who contacts me. I take that commintment very seriously.
Discretion is vital in this hobby. Please start using it. Our reviews tell about us. Do YOUR homework on the provider you want to see. I don't know anyone who wrote a review who wouldn't answer questions from another guy.
I don't know how to express this any better so you guys get it. I WILL NOT SEE ANYONE WHO ASKS ME ABOUT SPECIFICS BEFORE BEING SCREENED. IF you have specifics you want, get screened and then book a public meet and greet. It will cost you a meal, but at least you will know if I fit the bill with little investment.
I am willing to invest in making you a repeat client, but you have to be willing to protect us both by being discreet.
XOXOX
Sarah Renee