ATF Discussion for the Ladies

Alrighty, Ladies. Here's your chance to weigh in. While you may not have and certainly wouldn't name an ATF client, I know you do have preferences. What are the qualities/characteristics that endear a client to you?

[And DeAnna, you can't use "size of wallet" as a characteristic!]

Chemistry

I love a client who is thoughtful and considerate, can hold a conversation, and will respect boundaries. Boundaries are something I've particularly had a problem with recently.....

Alrighty, Ladies. Here's your chance to weigh in. While you may not have and certainly wouldn't name an ATF client, I know you do have preferences. What are the qualities/characteristics that endear a client to you?

[And DeAnna, you can't use "size of wallet" as a characteristic!] Originally Posted by arklookn4lovn

you know me too well


But i will try to seriously answer this question..

qualities or characteristics..

#1 guys that are calm, relaxed yet confident

#2. guys that know what they want.. it makes my job so much easier when atleast guys know what they hope to get.. and doesn't just leave it up to me and then complain they didn't get what they want you know

#3. Guys that are considerate of my time

#4. guys that do their homework.. know what you getting..know the type of provider I am.. don't expect every girl to be like the next

and the BIG ONE

Guys that just wanna have a good time.. We won't get tied up in all lifes dramas..no there is no chance of dating outside of this..we both have lives and guys that realize that and appreciate that are guys I prefer to hang with. guys just looking for an experience and realize that experience comes in the hours they purchase..its real..its raw..but its not something that will translate into something more.. guys that just want that good time..

I'm in total agreeance with all the ladies comments so far...

The big attribute that makes a guy a standout in my book is stellar chemistry and similar sexual styles and appetites.

I think sexual style is a good way to put it.. I get that some guys see certain girls because of her different sexual style.. perhaps he always sees the gfe girls, the regular menu stuff..and wants to see a girl that is wild offers more etc.. I get that his typical sexual style doesn't match that ...but I think you atleat gotta know what sexual style you are getting and don't expect the opposite

That and i think a thread like this is a good time for ladies to stand up and be honest and NOT give the answers they think guys wanna hear to get their business.. (none of the ladies have done this so far..but its coming)..

I think ultimately most guys wanna feel confident that the time a lady spent with him was NOT miserable.. that above all makes the guy feel good.. So this is a great time to tell potential or current clients what it takes to kinda be one of those guys that you don't go "oh shit not him again"..

don't give the standard "hobby answers".. give some insight into what a guy can do for YOU as a provider..

as I said for me

Know who you
are booking, don't ask me to "cuddle" for an hour and be romantic in your arms and wonder why I feel like I have creepy crawlies all over me.. Its not me.. Its not that I can't do it in order to make the money..but why be someone else?

so guys.know who you are booking

I love a client who is thoughtful and considerate, can hold a conversation, and will respect boundaries. Boundaries are something I've particularly had a problem with recently..... Originally Posted by Lily Blair

+1,0000000000000

Men who like to try new things with me always make me happy, someone who is kind and appreciates me for what I do for them, not for the things I will not do, afterall I am pretty d4l if you ask me. I like a client who respects me and understands I am not a machine, although I can work it; I like to hold conversation and enjoy my sessions, mix biz with pleasure!! Someone who caters to me while I am catering to them is always nice, like swap for swap, you do this for me I do this for you, not only adds that kink, but makes you feel wanted, afterall we all want to be loved for who we are on the inside not just on the outside and not only for the things we do. I also like clients who see me on a regular basis, not some once in a blue moon type thing, as I can get to know you this way and the things that you like, vice versa. I could go on and on... I love all my cleints!! ( Daddies ) Thanks for helping make my Dreams come true, without you I would not be the same!! MWAH

Personally a good massge as well as the above....and a sense of humor and kindness to others..

My pet peeves:

I can't read your mind. If there is something you want tell me. All men are different.

Asking about my personal life, or the lives of any of the other providers.

Trying to barter, haggle, or just being a plain ol' cheap skate.

My ALL TIME gripe: Don't call me 1 hour before you want to see me (with no warning) and get mad when I can't get bathed, get dressed, put gas in my vehicle, travel, get a room, and see you all within an hour.

What I LOVE and appreciate:

Those who are well mannered.
Clean, freshly shaven men.
All details are already worked out ahead of time so that the date goes as smoothly as possible.
Confidence, passion, appreciation.
Those who respect me, my time and my boundaries.
Appreciation for the lengths we go through to look great for you.
Appreciation for the life I lead outside of the hobby.

AND I LOVE THE TYPE THAT WANTS TO GIVE AS MUCH AS THEY RECEIVE!! MUAH!!