How do you fantasize?

Fellas (ladies, also if you have a response, please add). I'm curious. I know that men typically fantasize about women in sexy clothes, and with a certain overstated feminine physique or look about them and definitely those with porn star experience and preferential sexual proclivities in the top 5 percentile. But what about a woman's non sexual characteristics would make her good fantasy fare? The woman who donates her hair to locks of love? A woman with a mechanical aptitude of a Nascar pit crew? A vegan? Who are the women who get guest roles in your fantasies?
For me, I get a natural thrill from a man in uniform, costume, or masks. Thats the sexual fantasy template. But I find that men who are non muscular sponge bob square pants are a challenge, and i love a challenge. Especially if they are wearing wingtips or golfing pants.

artistic talent. I think Emma Thompson is fuckin sexy and it has little to do with the way she looks.

This may tie in to what you stated earlier but I adore women who are enthusiastic, intelligent, articulate, and have a wonderful imagination. While a sexy physique is nice to have, your mind and words will get me off a lot harder than just your body ever will.

He was the first guy to go down on me and give me an orgasm. I was 26 and he was 41. Old guys know shit, I learned.

One time, I tore the buttons right off his uniform as soon as he walked through my door. I couldn't get enough of him.

My mind still can't.

artistic talent. I think Emma Thompson is fuckin sexy and it has little to do with the way she looks. Originally Posted by habonero

+1. She's totally sexy.

Back to fantasy, sort of....
For Kinder's question:
I'm looking for a gal that can turn on a smile.
And, within our fantasy world, it's quite fun to find someone to share a bit of reality with bcd.

Back to fantasy, sort of....
For Kinder's question:
I'm looking for a gal that can turn on a smile. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

She can take a nothing day . . . And suddenly make it all seem worthwhile. . .

She can take a nothing day . . . And suddenly make it all seem worthwhile. . . Originally Posted by habonero

OMG, what an adorable dork you are! I so wanted to be her when I grew up!

When I was in college, I met a married lady one evening... she was probably in her mid-30's... a soccer mom before there were soccer moms... a total knockout... long black hair, full red lips, long legs that went from her ankles to her ass... we fucked that night in the back seat of her husband's 4-door Cadillac... and met once a week for the rest of the summer before I returned to college. Looking down at that wedding ring while she sucked me, stroked me... so, yeah, I guess that's my fantasy... even 45+ years later... a married lady.

....and i love a challenge. Originally Posted by Kinder Caress

Ohhhh, I'm all about challenges, Kinder!

He was the first guy to go down on me and give me an orgasm... Old guys know shit, I learned. Originally Posted by seductrix4u

Speaking of challenges....

When I was in college, I met a married lady one evening... she was probably in her mid-30's... a soccer mom before there were soccer moms... a total knockout... long black hair, full red lips, long legs that went from her ankles to her ass... we fucked that night in the back seat of her husband's 4-door Cadillac... and met once a week for the rest of the summer before I returned to college. Looking down at that wedding ring while she sucked me, stroked me... so, yeah, I guess that's my fantasy... even 45+ years later... a married lady. Ohhhh, I'm all about challenges, Kinder! Speaking of challenges.... Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

I've enjoyed many a bj/hj with a ring on her finger. I'm a dirty mother effer.

To the OP, I'm a weirdo, I enjoy the sense of touch over the sense of sight. If she can play my skin flute, I am a happy man. She can't be as ugly as me, but skill overcomes appearance (but not cleanliness) any day.