References

Guys-

Please email me or message me before using me as a reference. Some ladies don’t have their numbers listed and to keep us all safe I won’t provide references to a random number.

Ladies-

We all screen differently. Calling another provider a fucking cunt because I said I don’t provide references via text message when I don’t know who you are is rude. We are all trying to be safe especially in this climate. And if you don’t know how to screen without references ask one of the other providers we’ll be glad to help.

Kati

Excellent advice. You don't know who is on the other end of a rando text message.

Email or PM is best for ref checks

I always just send eccie profile and notify my reference in text.

That is a terrible thing to do. I’ve never had any problems receiving refs from you. 🤔 Must have been her.

Ladies-

We all screen differently. Calling another provider a fucking cunt because I said I don’t provide references via text message when I don’t know who you are is rude. We are all trying to be safe especially in this climate. And if you don’t know how to screen without references ask one of the other providers we’ll be glad to help.

Kati Originally Posted by KatiforYou

The following is not permitted on the site, and applies to PMs too.

Insulting Others
Targeting other members for attacks
Harassing other members, groups of members, class of members, etc
Disrespecting other members on the site
General rudeness toward other members on the site

So anybody sending comments like that via eccie PM will be subject to warnings or infractions as appropriate.


I'm sorry that happened to you Kati.

I always ask anyone giving me references to contact them first to see how the lady wants to be contacted for a reference. Plus it gives them the heads up so they are not blind sided. Never had a single problem getting a reference when the lady knows ai will be contacting her.

Kati, no one should ever talk to you that way. I am so sorry someone didn’t get that safety is number one in this industry. I do hope you have a great rest of your week!

XOXOX
Sarah Renee

Call me or pm me or email....luv helping anybody!