disturbing trend

For the guys:I know some of you complain about screen process but would you see a female whose screening consist of "are you LE?"
Ladies: who you see a guy whose only reviews are of BP girls who are know to have issues therefore making them unreliable references?
I got a bad feeling and said no just looking for other view points...

I wont use bp ref's , they mean zilch to me

I don't think I would use a BP reference either. I would feel more comfortable getting a reference from a reputable SP.

For the guys:I know some of you complain about screen process but would you see a female whose screening consist of "are you LE?" Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Nope. Actually walked away from a potential appointment with a remarkably cute young girl who asked me that, and that only...killed me to do so, but better than jeopardizing my safety.

A lady who doesn't screen well is too much of a risk to see.

When in the States, I will never ever ever ever EVER accept a bp reference, I'm already quite picky about references to begin with, basically if its not someone with a legit website, consistent review history, and Date-Check/P411 acct, I won't accept them as a reference. Period.

I don't like giving references, I just like to say its me, click on the link to my reviews....

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2 times I met a lady that didn't screen at all.
Both had recent TER reviews all GFE 8+, so I guess as long as the screening from my side is okay .............................. ............
One of them ehhhhh well see my avatar!


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I don't really know if the ladies screen me very hard as it is and haven't walked away from one yet. However most if not all of the ladies I've seen have been on here, p411 or both so they are fairly reputable. I don't see ladies that are on BP alone.

Question to the Ladies: Would any of accept references from Established & well reviewed Escort Agencies? Some hobbyist build a good reputation with escort agencies posting reviews & becoming regulars.

Question to the Ladies: Would any of accept references from Established & well reviewed Escort Agencies? Some hobbyist build a good reputation with escort agencies posting reviews & becoming regulars. Originally Posted by hobbyprojb

Agencies fall under the same category as BP to me. (no disrespect to either) Most girls Ive talked to will not accept either as well.

Question to the Ladies: Would any of accept references from Established & well reviewed Escort Agencies? Some hobbyist build a good reputation with escort agencies posting reviews & becoming regulars. Originally Posted by hobbyprojb

That's only if they give you an honest reference without fear of losing clients.

I've always been unsuccessful when trying to get a thumbs up from an agency.

I don't think I would use a BP reference either. I would feel more comfortable getting a reference from a reputable SP. Originally Posted by Shayla

I know some of the providers on BP are less than perfect but I have seen some very nice and reputable ones that advertise on it. I have had as much success with providers on BP as I have with P411 or Eccie. Just because you have some ok reviews and are on p411 or here doesn't mean your session will be great. I have had a few that were in my mind narcistic and boring. Alot of providers start out on BP and not only are they great in session they are usually less in donation. We have to watch out for ourselves both provider and hobbyist to make sure we are seeing a good one and one thats not members of a governmental agency. With some good conversation on the phone and carfeful planning when in person we can make sure that it's a safe non LE environment. I guess I just get tired of BP bashing because I see it from providers all the time.

Short answer: No

However what does it matter where she advertises, does it matter where a provider advertises when it comes to issues.

Its not bp with the issues, its the provider herself who has issues. What if she only advertisies here, and she had issues, would you cut her a break and still use her as a ref because she advertises only here.

Short answer: No

However what does it matter where she advertises, does it matter where a provider advertises when it comes to issues.

Its not bp with the issues, its the provider herself who has issues. What if she only advertisies here, and she had issues, would you cut her a break and still use her as a ref because she advertises only here. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

100% agree.