I had a P411 request for a 2-hour visit this past Friday evening at 6 pm. I contacted some of his provider ok's for necessary information, and got the info I needed. I communicated to him that I couldn't make it at 6, but I could meet him at Starbuck's for coffee at 7 p.m., then BCD time after. He said that Starbuck's at 7 p.m. was perfect.
I arrived around 7:05 p.m., and we sat down for a cup of coffee and a little conversation. He was being very chatty, and I indicated several times that we should probably get going. He kept bringing up new subject material. Finally, I told him that we needed to head back to my place, because I had promised to have a drink with a girlfriend afterwards.
It was now 8:30 p.m.... He looked me in the eye and said, "I'm sorry, but I'm going to have to get a rain check. My body shuts down at this time of night, because [medical excuses] and I get up at 4 a.m. every day." I was a little shocked. He had 6 P411 ok's, so I was sure he realized that even though he had opted out of the BCD, it was not my choice or my fault...and he would still owe me for my time. He should also have been familiar with what time "his body shuts down" every night...and he should never have agreed to the time if he was incapable of following through. Period. I very much wanted to verbally address the issue immediately. However, we were sitting on the patio at Starbuck's surrounded by other customers. I didn't feel there was a discreet way of asking for my donation. And he still continued to bring up more conversation material. Unbelievable.
He didn't pay for my gas. He didn't pay for my coffee. He didn't even offer to reimburse me for the cost of my incall. Nothing.
I went to my car. It was now 8:45. I immediately called him to tell him he had to compensate me. He didn't answer. I called him 2 more times. He refused to answer. I left him a very diplomatic voicemail, telling him that he still owed me for our meeting. It was no fault of my own that he chose not to go through with the BCD. I look like my pictures. I committed no atrocity that would cause him to change his mind. And my time costs money. This is my job.
I sent him an email saying the exact same thing. I offered to delay posting this alert, telling him that he had 1 more day (Saturday) to offer to recify the situation...before I alerted the community to his scam. No response.
I've since spoken with another lady from his P411 ok's...and she indicated that he can't handle the physical aspect of BCD...and all that occurred on her date was a bunch of talking. She also told me that she had to interrupt him several times during the date...and demand 30 minutes into it that she was either getting her money, or she was leaving. All while he gabbed on and on and on. So, he received from me exactly what he usually gets on any date...he just refused to pay for it.
His name is Ch*r**s Br*d N******, P411 number Ch*r**s-*9-C-9*91, Phone (87*) 6*6-2*86, email cbfn87*@*****.com. PM me for the unedited information.
He had no problem with wasting my entire evening and then cheating me out of my donation. Ladies, he will do the exact same thing to you. Do Not See.
Good thing for these little smilie guys. 
