Do guys feel pressured

to make sure their lady achieves orgasm? If they dont, does that affect you some way?
I think female orgasms are complicated and there are so many ways to have different kinds of orgasms. And now squirting too!
I dont always come during penetration but thats ok because it feels amazing the whole time! Sometimes i can come other ways with toys, vibrators...talented tongues! Or if they find that spot to rub hard and fast i may squirt. But i may be not relaxed enough and i tense up and hold back. I dont ever want to make a guy feel pressured. I have no expectations and have fun with or without the O. I promise

Over the eons I have talked with other ladies who have asked about the same. I tell them "you are not in the escort business, you are in the ego business!!" Regardless of the relationship THAT is what it's all about. In the end, nothing else matters.

A primal, savage, arm and leg gripping, from the gut, body shaking orgasm is the VERY best way to flaunt a male ego. And THAT will get you tips, return visits, other visits, etc. And certainly there are other ways too but not to the extent of a more than subtle orgasm. And for me add a good honest . . . "you motherfucker" or "son of a bitch" or even a simple "whew" in my direction is just the right amount of seasoning!.

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To answer your question specifically . . . YES!

to make sure their lady achieves orgasm? If they dont, does that affect you some way?
I think female orgasms are complicated and there are so many ways to have different kinds of orgasms. And now squirting too!
I dont always come during penetration but thats ok because it feels amazing the whole time! Sometimes i can come other ways with toys, vibrators...talented tongues! Or if they find that spot to rub hard and fast i may squirt. But i may be not relaxed enough and i tense up and hold back. I dont ever want to make a guy feel pressured. I have no expectations and have fun with or without the O. I promise Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

Lol well this old lady cant fake it.....thats boring! Well maybe every great once-in-a-while I may not feel up to my 100% and fudge just a lil..but that is a rare occurance!

I guess I am fortunate that because of the hedonistic lifestyle Ive lived,that I really get into playtime!!


I am hyper sexual and can orgasm many times when playing...even can when I get my left nipple pinched or my butt spanked! And DO
NOT scratch my back or I might even shiver! Lol

And Mr. D .... you can be my "motherfucker" any day!

Btw..sexy miss S..you ask some awesome questions!

dumars is correct.
Getting a professional to smile is a huge ego boost for a guy.
Getting Dallas to tap out last week is an example.

My opinion only plus my attitude is I want the lady to enjoy the visit also I just want to know ( even if you are lieing) that you got some pleasure out of it. I am smart enough to know that I am just
Average but I try very hard
To please. Just ask Dallas
She knows me. But it's just my
Old school opinion that doesn't fit anymore

But I want my girl to feel good and I think women and men both find orgasm very satisfying. Like most guys I've had to listen to and watch fake loud orgasms. I THINK i can usually tell, clit and petals swollen, contractions in her vagina, that kind of thing. I feel very confident shes having a good and real orgasm if toys are involved.I've seen some amazing orgasms if she is working the toy and I'm helping out. Who knows better how to work her pussy than the owner of said pussy.

Yeah, I think a good "Illusion of Passion" is part of what we're looking for.

At home: Yes, have to make sure she's satisfied.
Hobby: Nah, nice if it happens but fake O is a turn off

+1

As I implied in my OP there are alternatives, fake or otherwise, that deliver a shock almost as well as an O!

And you are very correct, fake Os suck in a bad way!

At home: Yes, have to make sure she's satisfied.
Hobby: Nah, nice if it happens but fake O is a turn off Originally Posted by nwmomonger

I wasnt taking about faking it. Thats a whole different subject! I just want guys to understand that many other things feel incredible! The O is just icing on the cake! Also i get very sensitive right after so no touching! For about 4 min. Then good to go!

You sound like a great lady

Now that I figured out to relax I can have multiple Os. I'm not a very good actress so faking it's not an option

I know that most women do not orgasm from vaginal penetration, unless you are that lucky guy whose penis curves in such a manner as to be able to hit the g-spot or long enough to hit the cervix (hit as in massage or touch). That’s why I insist on DATY because most women will orgasm from a clitoral massage, and that feels good for both sexes.