Do most guys know the difference

dreamvacationdates's Avatar
I was on another website and noticed that there seems to be the notion that most Cis Males don't know the difference between Transwomen/transmen and CDs or just don't care, seems the transwomen and Transmen don't like being categorized together CDs
but it seems for Cis males they tend to bunch them together and treat them the same which they don't like at all. all thoughts on this.
Marx.V.Washington's Avatar
I don't like to be grouped together with crossdressers. I see that as more of a fetish while being a (trans) woman is my gender identity, separate from sexuality or fetishes. I'm still relatively new with the hobby, but I haven't encountered any client who doesn't know the difference.
dreamvacationdates's Avatar
I don't like to be grouped together with crossdressers. I see that as more of a fetish while being a (trans) woman is my gender identity, separate from sexuality or fetishes. I'm still relatively new with the hobby, but I haven't encountered any client who doesn't know the difference. Originally Posted by Marx.V.Washington
The big question is do they treat you any different or the same.
Gotyour6's Avatar
I dont think they give a shit.

They are either attracted to them, repulsed by them or people like me that think as long as you do you and don't try to pull me into something then I dont give a fuck.

Same goes for anything.
Religion: You want to believe in a God I dont give a fuck. Dont try and convince me there is one.

Most of the bullshit comes from people trying to force something on to someone.
How about you do you.
I am sick and tired of all the fucking idiots and trying to guess to call him a her, it or they want to go by a fucking potato.
Dont get offended if you look like a man in a dress and I say "He"
You want to correct me that is fine but for God sake don't think I give a fuck what you go by.
texassapper's Avatar
It would be nice if we could get to a place where peoples identity is not all about what is or isn't between their legs and what is or isn't between the legs of someone they sleep with.

It's just so Fcuking tiring.

Who I am, who you are, isn't about our genitals or the genitals we play with...anymore than it should be about our skin color, religious beliefs etc. What should define us is our character. Who we help. Who we are helped by.

This identity movement is all such bullshit. It's only goal is to divide and control.
JRLawrence's Avatar
I was on another website and noticed that there seems to be the notion that most Cis Males don't know the difference between Transwomen/transmen and CDs or just don't care, seems the transwomen and Transmen don't like being categorized together CDs
but it seems for Cis males they tend to bunch them together and treat them the same which they don't like at all. all thoughts on this. Originally Posted by dreamvacationdates
I don't care, and I have no interest. I know what you mean. I just choose to ignore those people.

With all of the beautiful women in the world, why the hell would a guy be interested in the weird nonsense.
pmdelites's Avatar
I don't care, and I have no interest. I know what you mean. I just choose to ignore those people.

With all of the beautiful women in the world, why the hell would a guy be interested in the weird nonsense. Originally Posted by JRLawrence
come on, remember, when you point your finger at someone, there are four more pointing back at you...



slightly modified:
"... With all of the beautiful men in the world, why the hell would a woman be interested in the weird nonsense. ..."

"... With all of the beautiful transmen in the world, why the hell would a cis woman be interested in the weird nonsense. ..."

"... With all of the beautiful transwomen in the world, why the hell would a cis man be interested in the weird nonsense. ..."

"... With all of the beautiful PEOPLE in the world, why the hell would a person be interested in the weird nonsense. ..."

it may not make sense to you or may not be for you or your liking/desires/wants (which is fine), but it's NOT nonsense (*).
walk in their world for a while and understand what it's like before commenting on it.


(* language, conduct, or an idea that is absurd or contrary to good sense. an instance of absurd action. one person's "good sense" or "absurd action" is another person's "wrong sense" or "reasonable action")
Lou Spowells's Avatar
A man dressed up as a woman, or a man who has had gender reassignment surgery is still a man.

dreamvacationdates's Avatar
A man dressed up as a woman, or a man who has had gender reassignment surgery is still a man.

Originally Posted by Lou Spowells
In Summary you don't know the differences...Gotcha
From my experience, it's an older generation thing. There will always be a few exceptions though. Threshold is probably around 30.
JRLawrence's Avatar
come on, remember, when you point your finger at someone, there are four more pointing back at you...



slightly modified:
"... With all of the beautiful men in the world, why the hell would a woman be interested in the weird nonsense. ..."

"... With all of the beautiful transmen in the world, why the hell would a cis woman be interested in the weird nonsense. ..."

"... With all of the beautiful transwomen in the world, why the hell would a cis man be interested in the weird nonsense. ..."

"... With all of the beautiful PEOPLE in the world, why the hell would a person be interested in the weird nonsense. ..."

it may not make sense to you or may not be for you or your liking/desires/wants (which is fine), but it's NOT nonsense (*).
walk in their world for a while and understand what it's like before commenting on it.


(* language, conduct, or an idea that is absurd or contrary to good sense. an instance of absurd action. one person's "good sense" or "absurd action" is another person's "wrong sense" or "reasonable action") Originally Posted by pmdelites


It all smells like bull shit. It it stinks walk away.

I don't give a shit.
dreamvacationdates's Avatar
It all smells like bull shit. It it stinks walk away.

I don't give a shit. Originally Posted by JRLawrence
You don't give a shit, yet you are here.. to give a opinion means you do give a shit otherwise you wouldn't of even made a comment. your comment also means you don't know the differences.
[QUOTE=pmdelites;1062147656]come on, remember, when you point your finger at someone, there are four more pointing back at you...


Not if that finger is centered and pointing straight up, lol

That's right, I said 'straight' lol
dreamvacationdates's Avatar
[QUOTE=daggajones;1062153287]
come on, remember, when you point your finger at someone, there are four more pointing back at you...


Not if that finger is centered and pointing straight up, lol

That's right, I said 'straight' lol Originally Posted by pmdelites
You don't know the differences either I see
Lou Spowells's Avatar
In Summary you don't know the differences...Gotcha Originally Posted by dreamvacationdates
A man is a man. A woman is a woman. Why is this confusing?