So disappointed.....

Why would you even bother setting up time just to get said lady's Room number and then proceed to tell her that you're uncomfortable walking through a hotel lobby? I could understand if I were new or he were new but we've seen each other twice before at this same hotel. Absolutely ridiculous being an eccie gentleman used to mean you didn't play stupid games, especially not with a seasoned lady with my amazing reputation. Just makes absolutely no sense to me. Trying to understand the logic.....

Sounds like a mental imbalance to me. No way to explain it really.

Did he say what made him uncomfortable? One time I went to see someone I had seen 15-20 times but when I got there I saw two marked cars and two unmarked cars near the entrance. I called her and said I can't do it. She got pissed. I played it safe. She stayed pissed. Sometimes you just have to go with your gut.

He used the hotel as the excuse, the very one he'd visited twice before. He had to walk through lobby instead of through an broken side door that is now fixed.

I hate this happened to you.

I haven't walked through a lobby in years, especially in the city I live in. I usually ask before I arrive if the lady would mind meeting me at a side door. It's not for games sake but so as to remain discrete. There are occasions when I forget to ask until I arrive and I can see how a lady may believe I'm playing a game but for me remaining incognito is prime.

If there were cop cars surrounding the place I could understand. But on a normal day? You just have to look like you belong. I usually take the lady I'm seeing some chocolates and some perfumed lotions or other trinkets that I think she will like. I also usually have something for us to drink. I carry these items into the hotel in a reusable grocery bag, or paper supermarket bag. If people think anything they think "oh he went and got some eats for his room". I walk in the door, go straight to the elevators, and straight to the room. You don't stand around a gawk or give anyone the chance to ask you if you need help.

This sounds like a case of "grow the fuck up" on the guys part.

Why would you even bother setting up time just to get said lady's Room number and then proceed to tell her that you're uncomfortable walking through a hotel lobby? I could understand if I were new or he were new but we've seen each other twice before at this same hotel. Absolutely ridiculous being an eccie gentleman used to mean you didn't play stupid games, especially not with a seasoned lady with my amazing reputation. Just makes absolutely no sense to me. Trying to understand the logic..... Originally Posted by Mi11ybbwcutie

Was there some reason you couldn't or wouldn't meet him at the side door to let him in? I mean if he was already there and you were already there all you had to do was go down and open the door for him and go back to your room it seems like a pretty easy thing to take care of to me and everybody would have walked away with a smile on their face. Some hotels are very funny about someone walking through the lobby and they actually keep an eye out for people they think might not belong there. I've been called out before by Hotel staff and they want to know who I'm there to see and of course you can't give them a provider name and you may not know the girl's real name under which she's registered and they bounce your ass right out of there perhaps this gentleman didn't want to undergo that type of treatment I totally understand it next time maybe take a few steps and open the door for him. MJ

I told him I was in lingerie and could change he was already gone. I've spoken to several ladies each with varies situations but all basically ending in him ditching appointments very last miniute. Everything being the way it is. It's probably a bigger risk to your discretion being seen being retrieved from a hotel lobby by me and my signature red hair, than it is not being an idiot and acting like you belong. Furthermore how discreet is it for me to take several trips a day to lobby to fetch people? Im professional and always in lingerie waiting a gentleman who has seen me more than a few times would of course know this is how I'd be dressed. Bottom line he wasnt knew he'd seen me before is same hotel. How about hobbyist or not we call a spade a spade.

Make your way back to Mobile and this guy won’t bail on you ��

Wish I could have a try but Tuscaloosa is risky as hell on both sides on the coin (provider vs hobbyist) I wouldn't want anybody coming around so-called title town.

Milly I hate that happened to you baby.
Same thing happened in Biloxi with someone I knew for over 10 years and not only was a family friend but also an eccie member.
These days his membership doesnt matter.

JM, T-town is actually really good as far as the lady screens and stays out of the shady areas.