What small touches have you encountered that were unexpected and really sexy?
Start out with, play with my hair while I DATY; rub my back with a heel while I DATY; Eyecontact anytime.
Enquiring minds...
There have been times when I just request a HJ because a lady's nails look so nice. I have had some toe curling orgasms just from watching a lady's pretty hands stroke me off, even more intense when they talk dirty.