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Brayzen's Avatar
Hello ladies and gentlemen.
Lately I’ve encountered a few issues that I would like to address.
Maybe I should caption it…
PROPER ETIQUETTE.
1) why have the lady go through all the trouble and time consumption of doing your screening, if you are not sure you can show up?
Most receive a gift for their time. Plus why would you put your info in someone’s hands that you know is going to be frustrated with you,
When you NC/NS
I am a professional, but not everyone you encounter is. So,
that could cause you some issues. Use your head on top of
Your shoulders.

2) why make an appointment if you’re not sure you can make it in the first place?
Some ladies never entertain more than one person a day. By making appointments that you can’t or have no intentions of keeping, then you are taking a timeslot for someone who is serious. That’s kind of rude don’t you think? Would you do that to your doctor? Your barber? Your THERAPIST?
All who provide services?
Please be respectful of EACH OTHER.
3) to save yourselves regret,Frustration, and disappointment…
Do your research! Cheaper isn’t always the best route to go.
If you contact a couple of Ladies and one takes a little longer to get back to you, because she’s doing your screening (as she told you it would take a little
Bit) . And the other one who’s time is less/ cheaper,
And doesn’t screen, says she can see you right now ( I look forward to reading THAT review) just tell the other one that something came up,
Or whatever other lie you want to tell…
JUST TELL ! That should be fairly simple. You have the time to call in to start with, then you have the time to let her know. It’s just the right thing to do.
Respect..
I believe in, you get what you give.
You all know that I’m not naïve, but lately this has happened more frequently.
Enjoy each others company respectfully (unless you’ve arranged a different scenario)
I love you all and very much enjoy visiting with you.
Done with my rant.
See you soon.
Caveat: we are all the same, do the same things, just on lines that suit each of us… this was not intended to insult or offend anyone.
Y Guy58's Avatar
Well said beautiful lady
CatMan4u's Avatar
Hey beautiful that's not expecting to much
Cherokeechief's Avatar
Well Put.

Also, one of the things I run into is I show up on time and Providers say I need a few more minutes. Sometimes it drags out to be longer.
If time is running short it's a problem. NC/NS's are the reason A list Providers stop coming to a city.

We need to be mindful of others and that problems do occur. It's everywhere.
Chief, you’ve been around long enough to know if you’re counting on punctuality, you’re might be in the wrong hobby😀
Katee, it seems we put more effort into the fish that gets away than the ones we reel in.
Still if we are expected to do all providers require of us then the least they can do is be on time. Our time is as valuable as theirs
DallasRain's Avatar
ditto

timelines & respect two way street!
I respect and appreciate the "new" clients I see..cause I screen them hard lol! Thanks boys for putting up with me...I am just extra careful with ne clients,as I use my own private incall and wanna stay safe!

Hi sexy lady..miss seein ya!!!!
Y Guy58's Avatar
I really appreciate the way you ladies handle business. Stay safe eveyone
Jakebrake39's Avatar
The hobby went to hell with covid in this area,It is frustrating to make plans, hand location out ,only to be disappointed. Has happened to everyone at some point and these days I no longer opt for outcalls, too many shady ppl. My gripe is not enough professional providers in a decent part of town, I dont do roach hotels. Never understood how hard it is to find a decent incall, take care of yourself and be effective with time management, be good at the service you provide and , bam repeat regulars.
CatMan4u's Avatar
Dallas your first line says it all one of my biggest bitchs with providers( no one specificly). can't follow the next message conversation and grip at us men for not scheduleing when they can't answer a very simple question like what part of town you are
not asking for a specific address
Y Guy58's Avatar
When you find a great provider please treat her with respect and don't NC/NS. One of my favorites said the reason she doesn't come to Springfield much is because of that reason
CatMan4u's Avatar
Yguy your absolutely correct
So everyone who reads this I have never ever ncns on a scheduled appointment and yes your not pointing a finger at me
Y Guy58's Avatar
You are correct my friend and you know the lady that I was referring to that visits Springfield.
CatMan4u's Avatar
Yes I know her and we have talked about this and we are on very good terms
I am sorry today has been a very disappointing day
Jakebrake39's Avatar
One of the biggest problems I see next to location and Quality of Location/Provider, is the response time. I have text some highly reviewed providers and receive a response many hours later. Heck I have even had them respond the next day, but there ad was up and recent.You cant tell me most normal ppl now days dont check their Cell phone at least once per hour.The clients understand that Providers also have lives, at least I get that,but if the ad is posted the day I call I assume like many others that your taking donations that day.I have nothing against a screening process , but if I have 2 hours of down time in my day than the response time to screening needs to be spot on and not draw out for long periods. I think a good screening process is your Eccie name and do you have reviews. I saw one ad from a gal awhile back visiting Springfield that said she required a Drivers lic.> definitely not a good idea. IDK I usually do the side GF gig these days just because its les of a headache.Back in the old days seeing a provider was easy and convenient. Really not convenient anymore.Just my 5 cents. I do appreciate all the good gals like Brazen etc.