Kissing

Okay, the age old question.....to kiss or not to kiss? In many ways I'm a hopeless romantic and I love to make a meeting more like a date....GFE. I see some providers who say GFE but then they say they don't kiss. I think kissing brings everything to the next level. I enjoy exploring her body with my mouth, and that includes kissing. What do you all think?
Cherokeechief's Avatar
Okay, the age old question.....to kiss or not to kiss? In many ways I'm a hopeless romantic and I love to make a meeting more like a date....GFE. I see some providers who say GFE but then they say they don't kiss. I think kissing brings everything to the next level. I enjoy exploring her body with my mouth, and that includes kissing. What do you all think? Originally Posted by SooperLover
I'm in total agreement.
My question is, they do a BBBJ but won't kiss.
That is wacked as far as I can tell.
I won't see a provider that won't kiss anymore.
Saw one in Springfield 3 times and after the 3rd time of no kiss I haven't seen her sense.

Of course this is just my opinion. LOL
Y Guy58's Avatar
I am exactly like you both. If they don't kiss then I just move on and find one who does. I know some of you guys might think I am crazy but no kissing is a deal breaker for me. I had a provider that would give a BBBJ and wouldn't kiss. I ask her why and she said I can control what is on your dick but not what's in your mouth. I said you won't be getting anymore of my money.
Rooter's Avatar
I agree as well. It's not at the top of my list but it is a huge turn on. A woman's lips mouth and tongue are so sexy. We all have things we aren't into so I don't hold it against them. But when you find one that does it sensual and sexy wowza!
NordicJag's Avatar
Thef first thing that I look for when researching a lady is kissing with tongue, preferably DFK.
I have seen several gals that don’t dfk. They were fun but nothing says hot and sexy like a long wet kiss.


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I had one provider tell me that it was "Too intimate" to do DFK. She kissed closed mouth only. The funny thing is I'm looking for that intimacy! I can understand why a provider may not want to DFK. I'm sure some clients come in....let's just say, not so clean. But I shower, brush my teeth, even suck on a mint before I see anyone! I agree with you all, if there's no kissing, then I move on. I think that's why I prefer an AMP scenario. I know exactly what I'm getting into, and the tease is where the intimacy is at. If I'm with an actual provider, I want a good old make out session.
OneSweetRub's Avatar
I might be able to provide an insight as to why a provider would do a BBBJ but not kiss… sometimes guys take better care of their jewels than they do their mouths. And, for some of us there are definite turn-off’s for kissing. Bad breath, smoker’s breath, nasty teeth.
There are also guys that kiss “weird”, so it’s like having your face sucked off, having spit rammed down your throat, having someone think that they are tonguing a saxophone staccato, etc… you get the picture.
On the flip, if a guy comes in with Brillo pad crotch, smells like ������ or is yeasty, that is just nasty!! And a guy is deluded to think any girl will willingly put her mouth in that mess.
Rooter's Avatar
There are also guys that kiss “weird”, so it’s like having your face sucked off, having spit rammed down your throat, having someone think that they are tonguing a saxophone staccato, etc… you get the picture. Originally Posted by OneSweetRub
Now you are just trying to turn us on. Lol
Y Guy58's Avatar
I always arrive to a encounter freshly shaved and shower and I always use a breath mint right before I meet the lady. I expect the same from her. I completely understand a lady not DFK but I respect her and just don't spend my money with her.
@OneSweetRub I totally agree with you. It has to be hard when you have someone who has no idea what hygiene or a toothbrush is. I hope to be a pleasant experience for you
NotQuiteBond's Avatar
I recall two providers, that upon just a step in the door, it was a super hot and lengthy make-out session with passionate deep french kissing. First meeting, and what an awesome icebreaker and huge turn-on! Something about a total stranger up to that point, and seconds later lip-locked like familiar lovers that hadn't seen each other in weeks!

I get why that doesn't usually happen, but man when it does!...
OneSweetRub's Avatar
I recall two providers, that upon just a step in the door, it was a super hot and lengthy make-out session with passionate deep french kissing. First meeting, and what an awesome icebreaker and huge turn-on! Something about a total stranger up to that point, and seconds later lip-locked like familiar lovers that hadn't seen each other in weeks!

I get why that doesn't usually happen, but man when it does!... Originally Posted by NotQuiteBond
It’s awesome when there is automatic chemistry like that. I think a sometimes clients really want that, but they can become too aggressive or pushy, which (IMO) negates the organic flow of the experience. It is so much better when it doesn’t have to be coerced or forced.
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@OneSweetRub I totally agree with you. It has to be hard when you have someone who has no idea what hygiene or a toothbrush is. I hope to be a pleasant experience for you Originally Posted by SooperLover
You’re going to come with Listerine in pocket and freshly showered and manscaped! Lol 😘