IRL vs providing

Any you guys or gals come across either a provider or a John - when you're being introduced in real life?

I'm talking not in a public meeting or at the malletc , but in a restaurant or at someone's house?

I had a situation once were a guy I was friends with introduced me to his new girlfriend while we were out having a beer- and I looked at her and knew I knew her from somewhere, and then it dawned on me she used to be a provider. I just looked at her gave her a wink - secrets safe here babe.

Just wondering if others have had experience where real life intros happened after meeting a pay for play girl or guy.

Ladies what about your experience w running into johns??

when I had a s/o I knew a few from high school or other irl connections, but I would stay away.
now there is no one in my area and I can get away alot more.
go figure

I could write a book lol

Sounds like you're not a very good friend.
If a friend of mine introduced me to his new GF and I knew that she used to sell it, I would tell him in a heartbeat.

Sounds like you're not a very good friend.
If a friend of mine introduced me to his new GF and I knew that she used to sell it, I would tell him in a heartbeat. Originally Posted by MrPlows

Not necessarily....maybe HE met her in the same capacity, so now you both have something else in common!

Never actually happened to me but a couple times i was pretty sure a lady i met in real life was a Hobby girl I had gone balls deep in before. In all cases they just looked familiar to me.

One time i did come across a lady who was a provider i was actively seeing. She popped up on facebook as a friend of a friend and the algorithm suggested we become friends on facebook.

I could write a book lol Originally Posted by chizzy

I can write a series of novels.
A few are still awaiting final chapters.

Just remember, discrete non-acknowledgement is what is expected.

Sounds like you're not a very good friend.
If a friend of mine introduced me to his new GF and I knew that she used to sell it, I would tell him in a heartbeat. Originally Posted by MrPlows

I actually lost a friend of 27 years by telling him exactly what you suggested. It wasn't the only reason we're no longer friends, but it was the straw that broke the camel's back. Our friendship changed, for the worse, almost as soon as I told him that I banged her a few months earlier through SA.

Of course she denied it, and he took her side. Then I showed him her profile and he still was in denial. Fast forward a year later, she's gone onto greener pastures, as I predicted, he's still in denial that she was a hooker, and I've lost tons of respect for him.

Ultimately, a very sad situation.

Back in the day it happened to me all the time. Among others, I encountered EM Sam, Ariel (who started at Elite), and Rikki (Summertime/Aroma Sunsations) out at bars and restaurants. Usually we just made eye contact and smiled knowingly. Not a good idea to start a conversation unless you're both soloing.

Edit: Sorry, I misunderstood the OP. No, I haven't been "introduced" in public to any providers I knew, I just ran into some of them IRL.

I could write a book lol Originally Posted by chizzy

Just share the Cliff notes chizzy lol.

Since all the club scene is dead, where do you run into these ladies? I used to see most at dance places before...but damned if I see them out now. Maybe casino or at bands but not like the old days of Chaunceys or houlihans or that period.

I was introduced to a very well known ex provider. She use to work for a friend. It was really unexpected and a little awkward but we both made it thru it.

Picked up a street walker in E Ohio years ago who gave to this day one of the best car blowies I’ve ever had. She was cute and mixed and I recognized her from somewhere then it hit when she confirmed she worked as a server at Outbacks a year earlier. I liked her serving me in the car much better lol

Since all the club scene is dead, where do you run into these ladies? ... Originally Posted by eyecu2

Starbucks, Walmart, grocery store, QuickTrip, Casino floor, couple local sports bars, restaurant waitress, horse shows, boat dock. All were coincidental meets. If solo, yes there was convo.

The boat dock meets, plural, were when they were on weekend overnights with single guys that also have boats. All of those were the discrete wink/nod thing except one. That was a couple years ago when a couple pro Iowa gals, that were letting their date sleep in, hopped into our boat for a couple hours. Very attractive (in bikinis with sundresses), side-rail weight for a sailboat race. We had them in safety harnesses hanging from the mast. They had a blast doing the Peter Pan thing from one side to the other. Even with a zero time handicap of the entire open class, we won. Taught them a few French and Portuguese cuss words that they were yelling at other boats as we passed those by. The two gals took credit for the win (we usually only have one gal on a wire, not three) and claimed the prize bottle that they gave to the guy they had let sleep in. Ran into one of those gals at a horse show in Ohio a year later.

I run into one of the retired KC gals at the horse shows frequently.

The punch line is that the real world actually includes what we think is a fantasy world.

I saw a provider @ giant eagle a few days after our appointment she was with another guy i just walked by and we both winked at each other