Let's Talk About Erotic Spanking :)

Yep - I know that it is not on the professional repertoire of every provider, and probably not a typical "new client" offering

but

the benefits to female arousal, caused by increasted blood flow and indirect stimulation of the pudendal nerve are very real

and psychosexual benefits accrue as well, as long as the lady has just a bit of a submissive personality and the gent knows what he is doing.

So, ladies, who enjoyes a good and proper seeing to on their lovely tushie? And gents do you like being the dominant one when this is in play?

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I don't know about the spanking part, but you do have a lovely tushie.
You better pray Phil Landerer does not see this post, he will go Rocco on you!
  • Luann
  • 10-14-2009, 08:26 AM
I love to be spanked! Not hard enough to leave marks but its pretty hot to get an ass slap or two during doggie or rcg!
I love to be spanked! Not hard enough to leave marks but its pretty hot to get an ass slap or two during doggie or rcg! Originally Posted by Luann
I'll keep that in mind........
Well, I think it sounds delicious to be honest. Well, at the right moment I know it can heighten the experience for me.
Well, I think it sounds delicious to be honest. Well, at the right moment I know it can heighten the experience for me. Originally Posted by Jolie Star
Please do not give me ideas nor encouragement.
I love the idea of a "Spankologist" as he calls himself...

So my favorite part of the article has to be about Warming Up and I quote:

HOW TO BEGIN? (WARM UP)


Warm-up is very important!

When there is no warm-up and just a merciless barrage of hard swats from the first hit, the results are far from pleasurable. Rather than trying to finish the job in twenty whacks like some Paul Bunyan-style lumberjack, begin the spanking by not spanking.

Gently stroke that bottom first.

Make it exciting.

Take your time.

Warm up the bottom by rubbing, squeezing, massaging it either gently or rough.

There is no hurry.
I couldn't agree more, the times I've enjoyed a small little spank has always been after I've been "Warmed Up" - All I ask is, if you feel the urge to give a proper spanking, warm me up first and do pop my booty very softly at first, if you hear me encourage, "More" well then you know what to do!


Then let me do you!!!
I definitely agree that spanking can heighten the expierience and as it is not for everyone as some people see it as a control sub/dom fetish, I view it as pleasure and a spur of the moment action that can happen just like light biting or even hair pulling these things can be sexy if done in the correct manner and spur of the moment and just letting yourself go is even better

MONKMONK Your tushie is very cute toooo
He he he!!
  • YSD
  • 10-15-2009, 08:18 AM
I can tell you first hand that Ms s kitty loves a delicious spanking. Oh yeah, I love to give them as well.
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Spanking enhances the moment, especially during the Orgasms of the Lady
Depends on what type of 'spanking' we're talking about. I've been with women that like their ass smacked with my open palm while I'm fucking her doggy or she's riding cowgirl. I like that!

If you're talking about putting the woman over my knee and spanking her reddening ass then I'll pass. That's getting too close to the creepy "Spank my little bottom Daddy!" scenario again!
I love being the giver, more than the reciever.
Just my preference....
However with the right person, it can be great, if done properly.
I liked to be bent over and have my booty spanked .