Stereotypes say..

In your opinion should being a full time single mom remove all the erotic action out of your life? Why or why not? Curious to see some different viewpoints as opposed to non hobbyist small country town standards..

Inspire me guys!

Cali
Always naughty never bad

No, A single Mom is allowed to have fun, but, safety is of greater importance. It should never interfere with what the child needs. Extreme care should be taken to ensure that the child doesn't meet your friends until everyone is ready, with the needs of the child being paramount. Whenever possible don't use a sleeping child as a reason to get busy. I have learned first hand that a child will walk in to figure out what is going on. It is not a pleasant experience for you or your partner, and explaining what is going on is not easy.


edit: Forgot to mention; Why was this put in another realm instead of co-ed discussion or the provider only?

All tied up tied it up nicely,I agree with everything said

Being a full time single mom , one would think you'd step away from this life style. And if small town values bother you. Move to a big city of your choice. Just being real here
Good luck

All tied up tied it up nicely,I agree with everything said Originally Posted by yourdesire

Heh,
YD shows her humorous side.

But seriously, there's more than one reason for bedroom door locks.

Seriously #2, single moms can't date? Whose rule is that?

With regard to the hobby. No. She just needs to be more careful. Years ago, I saw a single mom of 2 on a regular basis. She worked from 9am till 2pm while her kids were in school. She had a small group of trusted regulars. I had to get the room. Second Wednesday of every month.

Put it in the wrong area my bad

With regard to the hobby. No. She just needs to be more careful. Years ago, I saw a single mom of 2 on a regular basis. She worked from 9am till 2pm while her kids were in school. She had a small group of trusted regulars. I had to get the room. Second Wednesday of every month. Originally Posted by hairyhoudini

In their home?! Omg I'm appalled. I mean they would have to be very trusted and how can u ever trust someone you really don't know?!

I didn't post this to judge other people more to see where the collective mind of the hobbyist is. However I have my own beliefs and they are much more scrupulous than to be bringing anyone to a home where my children would sleep. I would always make sure it was else where I understand money being a problem here for most girls which is why they have chosen this as a profession they don't have to use their brains. However some like yours truly have a shadow self that enjoys something that is different than the rest and hobbying is it. Have a regular job, still hobby anyways. I guess you could say it feeds my ego. I love it .

No, I don't think you should remove all the erotic action out of your life but it depends on your needs and what you desire. You'll just have to keep things in balance when it comes to seeing that your child is cared for and keeping your clients happy. You could also meet the right guy naturally where you decide to leave the hobby if the right circumstances where in place as you navigate life to spend more time with your child. Reflect on why you're in the hobby in the first place. Is it for the money, the sex, or both?

You stated that, "I understand money being a problem here for most girls which is why they have chosen this as a profession they don't have to use their brains." Money/Currency is a big problem for a lot of people these days. For starters dollars are losing value due to excessive currency creation, destroying the purchasing power of said dollars which is easily understood when purchasing goods and services in the economy. There's a lot of Sugar Daddy sites popping up and I can really see the impact that this shitty economy is having on women having to resort to providing sexual services just to make ends meet. It's sad in a way because I think many of these younger women don't understand just how bad shit really is out there. Secondly, women do have to use their brains to stay SAFE in the hobby. They have to know how to avoid LE, avoid catching STD's, avoid getting raped, and knowing when to say NO to a client who may be out of line. The path is fraught with risk and knowing how to manage risk and/or family life is key to being a wonderful provider.

I didn't post this to judge other people more to see where the collective mind of the hobbyist is. However I have my own beliefs and they are much more scrupulous than to be bringing anyone to a home where my children would sleep. I would always make sure it was else where I understand money being a problem here for most girls which is why they have chosen this as a profession they don't have to use their brains. However some like yours truly have a shadow self that enjoys something that is different than the rest and hobbying is it. Have a regular job, still hobby anyways. I guess you could say it feeds my ego. I love it . Originally Posted by SweetCaliCox

I'm a high level executive with a master's degree, husband, and two kids. Been in the hobby for 7 months. Absolutely love it!

I'm a high level executive with a master's degree, husband, and two kids. Been in the hobby for 7 months. Absolutely love it! Originally Posted by MrsJessicaLynn

RAWR

I'm a high level executive with a master's degree, husband, and two kids. Been in the hobby for 7 months. Absolutely love it! Originally Posted by MrsJessicaLynn

And I absolutely enjoy that you do! Lol

I'm a high level executive with a master's degree, husband, and two kids. Been in the hobby for 7 months. Absolutely love it! Originally Posted by MrsJessicaLynn

I don't believe that, the high level executive part

Being a single mom shouldn't preclude you from having or enjoying a healthy sex life!