I set something up one morning for early afternoon. About an hour after setup I realized something was wrong with my car and I had to get it to the shop. I immediately notified her and she flipped out (this was still at least 3-4 hours before meetup time that we had set just an hour before). Saying now she couldn’t take her kid bowling and that I was just like all the others. So she’s a no for me. Not dealing with that type of drama.
I could have easily not told her anything and completely ghosted her but did what I thought was the polite thing to do.