My worst fucn nightmare

Has this happened to anyone else, i had been talking to a customer since 6PM it is now 10PM and he was putting off for hours. We finally get to the address and meet. He asks for bb. Tell me why he texts me immediately after saying he has HIV and saying is that ok? Now he's saying he was kiddin and that hes just being funny. NO SIR. This is my biggest fear with barebacking and now i just want to stop bare back at all with my regulars. Thats really some scary shit and an eye opener. I JUST tested for HIV 3 days ago.
You guys never worry? I test every month.

Also he told me hes black but has a thick accent and when i asked wtf is with that he said his actually indian. Ughhhhh.

Well I can't speak from your side of it but...yikes. Definitely a weird one that one is. Only advice I think I can give is to find those regulars you feel you can trust and stick with them to be a little more open with.

Should go with the safe option. Only bb if both of you provide recent test results.
And block any that so much as joke about it.

Sounds like someone was just trying to mess with you and waste your time. Sad that there are knuckleheads like that.

I’m not active in the hobby that much but get fully tested annually and have my results digitally. We are actually still at risk with protection, then the risk of slip offs, tears and breaks. I would highly recommend anyone that engages in high risk activities and are worried about HIV look into PrEP. I’m including a link for the info for women in case you’re curious. https://www.thewellproject.org/hiv-i...ion/prep-women

Doesnt matter if your a regular or not, HIV doesnt care.
Always use caution and protect yourself, or try explaining to your family how you got it