References

So I got a random number today and asked me to provide a reference for a number(guy) that I have seen a couple times in the past few weeks !
No name no introduction .. just can you verify this number ???

I kindly asked what is your name and are you member of eccie or p411 or anything to verify you are safe for my regular!!

She got mad called me a bitch and said she don’t need a reference lol! So I’m like okay sorry if you got offended?? Am I wrong for responding and verifying the way I did ! ! ?? Because if so I’ll accept that but it has been bothering me all day !!

You did fine.
The other gal should have identified herself.

I have heard of a few similar stories wherein a guy's wife pulled that type of inquiry, to entrap her soon to be ex.

Ignoring that the other gal failed basic respect for others in industry, the entire point of references is safety for everyone.

I really appreciate that !! I was like man I’m not mean !! I just wanna make sure we’re all safe!!

Thank you for that, you did exactly what you were supposed to do.


It is amazing how many fake texts a person gets for different things like bank notices or packages supposedly shipped to wrong address.


I am 99% sure that the call you got was up to no good.

Sounds either scammy or crazy……. Either way, you handled it right.

Sounds either scammy or crazy……. Either way, you handled it right.