Providers...have you ever...

Had a client come see you that you personally knew in your personal life? Curious how you handled that. I can imagine that would be a bit awkward. Do you go through with it or cancel immediately?

That's a good question

Yes and ive turned them away, nothing good could ever come of that.

Had a client come see you that you personally knew in your personal life? Curious how you handled that. I can imagine that would be a bit awkward. Do you go through with it or cancel immediately? Originally Posted by jsp1484

Twice.

One-- I was a bartender at a club for a while and this gent was a regular. We got along well and chatted frequently. Fast forward about a year-- he schedules with me. He arrives.. and we both knew we knew each other, but couldn't figure out where from. Post fun time-- we're chatting and I say something-- he stops, looks right at me-- screams the name of the club.. and we both die laughing. We've seen each other several times since then and he's one of my faves.

Two-- Had a gent reach out on P411. I instantly knew him because of real world activities. Declined the first time he reached out with an explanation that we know each other and it could be too awkward. He reached out to me again a few years later and I went ahead and saw him. He did not remember me at all but I remembered him quite well. I'd see him again-- wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be.



I honestly think it would really depend on how well they know you. Big difference between knowing each other from social circles and being close personal friends in the real world.

No, but I have had two providers refuse to fuck me because they considered me a "friend." It's quite a kick in the nuts to know "I'll fuck anyone on the planet except you."

Twice. 1st was a guy who went to my wedding and was one and done but had a good laugh once he realized who I was while I was riding cowgirl.

2nd was an ex boyfriend. Ended up dating about a year until he gave a list of about 15 guys on the board he didn't want me to see. I think there was like 2 I hadn't already seen. Of course I never told him that but yeah... that pretty much killed it with me...☺️

When I first moved here I was chatting with a lady I met on a site I cannot remember. We were chatting and then finally got to meet. After making out and first session of fun we chatted some more and found out we were in high school together. Had sex a few more times but decided not to see one another anymore as it was too close for comfort. It’s funny because she was a few years older and I fantasized about her in High School only to sleep with her decades later.

Were you divorced when you saw that guy or still married?

Once and never again !

I have a client/gent who has a flea market booth right next to mine
but hes a longtime regular and friend..so its cool...sometimes we run into each other when restocking our booths

Somebody should find the legendary post by The Scot on this subject.