Breaking into the Hobby World

I have two major issues with breaking into the hobby world.

First, deposits. I understand why providers want a deposit. But this requires an electronic transfer. Which is a record that can be used against both parties. (Let's not even talk about the opportunity for scams).

Second, I.D. verification through email, text, snap, whatever. Like a DL, LinkedIn page, work email, etc. Again, a record that can be retrieved.

Any thoughts on how to get past these two issues?

deposits. i have never sent one. There are too many well reviewed legit girls that never ask (at least incalls. if they are asking for one, i would say 95% chance you will be saying bye to your money

verification - i don’t give that info out either. i may miss out on some providers, but not many. i would rather do that than to give out my personal info to someone i don’t know, and may not be real. i understand in some instances the provider just wants to feel safe. on occasion i have given a provider the phone numbers of girls i’ve seen in the past and they can reach out for a reference.

Deposits for incalls are a definite scam. Outcall / gas money different story.

As for verification, I'm personally ok with a video chat or letting them talk to a reference or even a photo of my id with most of the info covered up.