Anyone still using Seeking?

I've been off it for a while but back then I was able to find a good 20 girls....met with about 12 of them back then...getting the itch to jump back in...any luck from anyone else?

Well I still use it but not for local talent. I use it for dating overseas. I think the girls here suck ( not in a good way ) there have been some I have had luck with but that was a few years ago.

Have been in for about a week now and I must say very promising start...not as cheap as it used to be but nothing is anymore...shoot me a DM if you all have any questions

Yea its pretty good but like you said not cheap.

I'm having limited success, all these mid girls want $400-$600 for a CBJ/CFS session.

Yea you get some crazy request some times but there are some gems hidden in there you just have to do the leg work to find them. Most are in the upper Valley so that sucks for me.

Well I still use it but not for local talent. I use it for dating overseas. I think the girls here suck ( not in a good way ) there have been some I have had luck with but that was a few years ago. Originally Posted by Thatdude361

Yeah, outside of North America, Seeking is still the best one for finding tour guides with benefits

I've been off it for a while but back then I was able to find a good 20 girls....met with about 12 of them back then...getting the itch to jump back in...any luck from anyone else? Originally Posted by Memogerman

seeking's half-life has doubled since it changed from seekingarrangements. I tried it in earnest in 2023. I messaged the hell out of every chick in my area in one month (then cancelled), ended up with 60 some girls off the site texting, dtf....saw 30 or so of them.
Re-upped 6 months later and got about half the response.
I bit the bullet and had that itch and re-upped last week. It is slim pickings now. Low quality low traffic. I'd say its busted

Well I still use it but not for local talent. I use it for dating overseas. I think the girls here suck ( not in a good way ) there have been some I have had luck with but that was a few years ago. Originally Posted by Thatdude361

Yea its pretty good but like you said not cheap. Originally Posted by down4fun

I'm having limited success, all these mid girls want $400-$600 for a CBJ/CFS session. Originally Posted by sand247

Keep in mind that you can always try negotiate down. I try to find out how long they expect the meeting to go (don't ask questions like you're talking to an escort, like a regular girl on a dating site) and then see if they're flexible on the amount of time. $400 isn't a bad deal she expects you spend 2-3 hours with you.

Unfortunately, if they use terms like "CBJ," that might mean they are pros. Hopefully, they're just saying she prefers condoms. In that case, it might take a visit or two to get over that if she's seen you a few times.

seeking's half-life has doubled since it changed from seekingarrangements. I tried it in earnest in 2023. I messaged the hell out of every chick in my area in one month (then cancelled), ended up with 60 some girls off the site texting, dtf....saw 30 or so of them.
Re-upped 6 months later and got about half the response.
I bit the bullet and had that itch and re-upped last week. It is slim pickings now. Low quality low traffic. I'd say its busted Originally Posted by nobody_home

I've used Seeking since it was "Arrangements", and I used to have a lot of luck pulling girls off it, but the price has gone up a fair bit, even if you wait around for the discount code they use to get you to re-join the paid membership. The last two years, I've been using SugardaddyMeet.com; it's like Seeking but a lot cheaper. Yes, it doesn't have as many members as Seeking, but none of the other sites do. Still, they are also okay with guys asking about PPM and the other money talk that gets people banned, so it's easier to see if you're on the same page with a girl before you move off the site.

Usually, I'll pay the 1-month free ($50), grab as many contacts as I can and then cancel, work my way through the contacts and then rejoin once I'm bored again. It might be worth checking out as an alternative, I think a lot of the girls post on more than once site anyways.

I just started using it and it really is good for overseas talent that are looking for foreign dudes. I've chatted with a few locals and even one or two from Corpus who are looking for some PPM stuff. But most of them are looking for outrageous amounts for almost nothing. I had this one lady that was asking for $400 a month with 0 intimacy. I won't knock it if that's your thing, but you can get that with 900 numbers for a fraction of the price.

I'm an old widowed dude searching for a 20 - 30 maybe #6 with nice body. Would I have any luck. Don't have much game

I think your best bet is Secret benefits

I think your best bet is Secret benefits Originally Posted by Jjrr99

Be careful with Secret Benefits, because you pay by credit, they have this system where real profiles will send out automated messages. Look up "zombie profiles" and you'll find a few stories.

I'd stick with Seeking or SDM just because they charge a flat monthly fee, so if they did that, you're only wasting time, not credits.


https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...iew/?rdt=61902

these girls be creating profiles everywhere secret benefits, seeking, even standard dating sites